"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why do girls act like this???

aix237

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Why do girls say things to make it seem like they want an LTR with you and show high signs of interest then make it so difficult to get to that point. This girl ive been gaming on and off for a while now is like that. She is very flirtatious not only with me but with other dudes. but sh!t she said to me seems like it couldnt be said to other people. I just saw her at a party that she was throwing and i would say about 98% of the dudes there weren't sh!t. Mutual people that we know always tell me to go after her and i think they say the same to her cause she knows sh!t about me ive never said to her. I was told before that she has guys lining up to go out with her. I kind of believe it. but she told me that when we were talking that she hasnt really dated anyone in a long time. I know shes boned some dudes after her break up with her 3 year ltr bf. When we were out a bar before i heard some dude ask her who i was and she said i just started dating him. I was thinking you call this dating ahhaha.

This girl just seems difficult sometimes. Like well talk then shell flake then ill say fvck it and stop contacting her. Then shell contact me like 2-3 weeks later. This has happened like 3-4 times already. I just recently saw her last weekened and she was showing ioi's and told me to call her. So im going to call her one last fvcking time this weekened if sh!t doesnt happen im done with her forever. Any suggestions about these types of girls.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WC2

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Girls are always trying to up their confidence with other guys. Especially young girls. Just make sure you're not the guy who's upping her confidence to go approach other guys. Make her work for you.
 

vp171s

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She sounds like an attention wh0re. What do you do with those you ask? Stop giving her attention, plus those type of girls need to grow up, so imho, next her.

Your time is much better spent on a girl who appriciates every minute of it. Easier said than done? Welcome to the club.
 

Remulak

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She's a flake and although she may be looking for an LTR she doesn't have the maturity. She also sounds like an attention wh0re, don't focus on this chick.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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