"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why do girls act like this???

aix237

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Why do girls say things to make it seem like they want an LTR with you and show high signs of interest then make it so difficult to get to that point. This girl ive been gaming on and off for a while now is like that. She is very flirtatious not only with me but with other dudes. but sh!t she said to me seems like it couldnt be said to other people. I just saw her at a party that she was throwing and i would say about 98% of the dudes there weren't sh!t. Mutual people that we know always tell me to go after her and i think they say the same to her cause she knows sh!t about me ive never said to her. I was told before that she has guys lining up to go out with her. I kind of believe it. but she told me that when we were talking that she hasnt really dated anyone in a long time. I know shes boned some dudes after her break up with her 3 year ltr bf. When we were out a bar before i heard some dude ask her who i was and she said i just started dating him. I was thinking you call this dating ahhaha.

This girl just seems difficult sometimes. Like well talk then shell flake then ill say fvck it and stop contacting her. Then shell contact me like 2-3 weeks later. This has happened like 3-4 times already. I just recently saw her last weekened and she was showing ioi's and told me to call her. So im going to call her one last fvcking time this weekened if sh!t doesnt happen im done with her forever. Any suggestions about these types of girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WC2

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Girls are always trying to up their confidence with other guys. Especially young girls. Just make sure you're not the guy who's upping her confidence to go approach other guys. Make her work for you.
 

vp171s

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She sounds like an attention wh0re. What do you do with those you ask? Stop giving her attention, plus those type of girls need to grow up, so imho, next her.

Your time is much better spent on a girl who appriciates every minute of it. Easier said than done? Welcome to the club.
 

Remulak

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She's a flake and although she may be looking for an LTR she doesn't have the maturity. She also sounds like an attention wh0re, don't focus on this chick.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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