"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why do girls act like this???

aix237

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Why do girls say things to make it seem like they want an LTR with you and show high signs of interest then make it so difficult to get to that point. This girl ive been gaming on and off for a while now is like that. She is very flirtatious not only with me but with other dudes. but sh!t she said to me seems like it couldnt be said to other people. I just saw her at a party that she was throwing and i would say about 98% of the dudes there weren't sh!t. Mutual people that we know always tell me to go after her and i think they say the same to her cause she knows sh!t about me ive never said to her. I was told before that she has guys lining up to go out with her. I kind of believe it. but she told me that when we were talking that she hasnt really dated anyone in a long time. I know shes boned some dudes after her break up with her 3 year ltr bf. When we were out a bar before i heard some dude ask her who i was and she said i just started dating him. I was thinking you call this dating ahhaha.

This girl just seems difficult sometimes. Like well talk then shell flake then ill say fvck it and stop contacting her. Then shell contact me like 2-3 weeks later. This has happened like 3-4 times already. I just recently saw her last weekened and she was showing ioi's and told me to call her. So im going to call her one last fvcking time this weekened if sh!t doesnt happen im done with her forever. Any suggestions about these types of girls.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WC2

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Girls are always trying to up their confidence with other guys. Especially young girls. Just make sure you're not the guy who's upping her confidence to go approach other guys. Make her work for you.
 

vp171s

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She sounds like an attention wh0re. What do you do with those you ask? Stop giving her attention, plus those type of girls need to grow up, so imho, next her.

Your time is much better spent on a girl who appriciates every minute of it. Easier said than done? Welcome to the club.
 

Remulak

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She's a flake and although she may be looking for an LTR she doesn't have the maturity. She also sounds like an attention wh0re, don't focus on this chick.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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