"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do American girls like drama and chaos

Dhoulmagus

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They prefer to be in some no name, foggy, on and off fwb relationship with some man that ***** with their head all the time.

They play games and you have to play games to keep their interest high.

It's just not worth it after the first ****. I'm going to stick to ONS.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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El Payaso

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Because that's all their used to and what they've been raised up on. Just look at a sample of what they watch in reality TV.
 

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They want a challenge and drama brightens up their dreary boring lives.

There's an article on Girls Chase on it you may find interesting, though one of the few articles there I disagree with on the basis that some women in my opinion do chase it: http://www.girlschase.com/content/women-and-drama
 

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They are often "bored" in their global mind (women are global thinkers and men are compartmental thinkers) and want to feel SOMETHING ... Anything. What better way to unbored yourself by creating or getting involved in drama!

And away the hamster goes!

Epi
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Life has become too easy for women. That's the reason. What do people do when they get bored? They start making trouble and shaking things up. They start creating drama out of nothing. They start taking dumb risks.

The human mind craves stimulation and women don't get it anymore now that enough laws have been put in place to completely castrate men. So must men walk around in fear of women. Women are bored as a result because men have always been what makes their lives exciting and with most men castrated.. they have to look to celebrities and felons to get their thrills.

Shameful sh!t.
 

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Not all women are like this. The types that are into chaos and constant BS drama are trouble any way. While it's hard to find a needle within the drama queen haystack, it's still possible.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
You mean how and why did we go from this to this in the space of just 5 decades give or take?

*Puts arm over Dhoulmagus's shoulders* (No hummus)

Walk with me son............
LMAO WHAT THE FVCK

EDIT: WHAT THE FVCKKKKK
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's all smoke and mirrors she does to herself. They like the attention and want the rest of the world to say. "Look at that 'strong woman' and all she goes through and deals with. She is Wonder Woman!"
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
They prefer to be in some no name, foggy, on and off fwb relationship with some man that ***** with their head all the time.

They play games and you have to play games to keep their interest high.

It's just not worth it after the first ****. I'm going to stick to ONS.
What kind of girl are you looking for & what do you want regarding women?
 

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Dgwizdal said:
LMAO WHAT THE FVCK

EDIT: WHAT THE FVCKKKKK
Seriously what THE FVCCKKKK. LIKE WHAT THE FVCKJKJ
 

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( . )( . ) said:
You mean how and why did we go from this to this in the space of just 5 decades give or take?

*Puts arm over Dhoulmagus's shoulders* (No hummus)

Walk with me son............
Aww look she is pioneering self exploration and introspection! how fulfilling! At least she found a third use for her vagina.
 
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