"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why do American girls like drama and chaos

Dhoulmagus

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They prefer to be in some no name, foggy, on and off fwb relationship with some man that ***** with their head all the time.

They play games and you have to play games to keep their interest high.

It's just not worth it after the first ****. I'm going to stick to ONS.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Payaso

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Because that's all their used to and what they've been raised up on. Just look at a sample of what they watch in reality TV.
 

LMFAO

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They want a challenge and drama brightens up their dreary boring lives.

There's an article on Girls Chase on it you may find interesting, though one of the few articles there I disagree with on the basis that some women in my opinion do chase it: http://www.girlschase.com/content/women-and-drama
 

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They are often "bored" in their global mind (women are global thinkers and men are compartmental thinkers) and want to feel SOMETHING ... Anything. What better way to unbored yourself by creating or getting involved in drama!

And away the hamster goes!

Epi
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Life has become too easy for women. That's the reason. What do people do when they get bored? They start making trouble and shaking things up. They start creating drama out of nothing. They start taking dumb risks.

The human mind craves stimulation and women don't get it anymore now that enough laws have been put in place to completely castrate men. So must men walk around in fear of women. Women are bored as a result because men have always been what makes their lives exciting and with most men castrated.. they have to look to celebrities and felons to get their thrills.

Shameful sh!t.
 

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Not all women are like this. The types that are into chaos and constant BS drama are trouble any way. While it's hard to find a needle within the drama queen haystack, it's still possible.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
You mean how and why did we go from this to this in the space of just 5 decades give or take?

*Puts arm over Dhoulmagus's shoulders* (No hummus)

Walk with me son............
LMAO WHAT THE FVCK

EDIT: WHAT THE FVCKKKKK
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's all smoke and mirrors she does to herself. They like the attention and want the rest of the world to say. "Look at that 'strong woman' and all she goes through and deals with. She is Wonder Woman!"
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
They prefer to be in some no name, foggy, on and off fwb relationship with some man that ***** with their head all the time.

They play games and you have to play games to keep their interest high.

It's just not worth it after the first ****. I'm going to stick to ONS.
What kind of girl are you looking for & what do you want regarding women?
 

No.Danny

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Dgwizdal said:
LMAO WHAT THE FVCK

EDIT: WHAT THE FVCKKKKK
Seriously what THE FVCCKKKK. LIKE WHAT THE FVCKJKJ
 

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( . )( . ) said:
You mean how and why did we go from this to this in the space of just 5 decades give or take?

*Puts arm over Dhoulmagus's shoulders* (No hummus)

Walk with me son............
Aww look she is pioneering self exploration and introspection! how fulfilling! At least she found a third use for her vagina.
 
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