"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do all mainstream male singers sound like pvssies these days?

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Anyone else make this same observation?

What happened to the masculine voices like we had pre-2000? They were raw, virile and ballsy. Now we have these wimpy sounding guys. Literally all of them.

Do record labels and music execs not seek out masculine voices anymore? Or is there no demand for it anymore? And if either, which came first?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You can listen to male vocalists and not be gay...
Also, I agree with op. Most male singers these days crank it up a few notes just because higher notes, for some reason, turn on the teenage girls listening. No clue why (this is why most female adults have switched over to better music, because they don’t wet themselves looking at boy bands anymore)
 

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Most male singers these days crank it up a few notes just because higher notes, for some reason, turn on the teenage girls listening.
An odd phenomenon, because it's usually accepted that a deep masculine voice in conversation will appeal to females. But popular music seems to favor males who can sing in higher registers (country notwithstanding). Maybe because the ability to sing high is rarer in males, so it's seen as a greater skill, and helps them to stand out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah, cause you're gay if you like Metallic or Guns N' Roses. Right. :rolleyes:
No disrespect intended. That's a concert, not a music video. But sure I look at music videos with guys mainly on it as well on occasion, such as Madness "Our House", or something from the 80s like Mr Mister. I'm not obsessed by them I guess is what I mean to say.

Like take this video for example:

I've only watched it once or twice and then I leave it alone. Anymore than that then you know it wouldn't feel right. Videos that feature one guy taking the screen....I don't know. Do you think that video is very masculine for Mr. Chad here? Its a recent music video.
 

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You mean like this?


or this


I love high voices man... I'm probably gay, who knows. :D

 
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Common this is a good song, lol... this might aswell be the Sosuave anthem
 

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An odd phenomenon, because it's usually accepted that a deep masculine voice in conversation will appeal to females. But popular music seems to favor males who can sing in higher registers (country notwithstanding). Maybe because the ability to sing high is rarer in males, so it's seen as a greater skill, and helps them to stand out.
Popular music that appeals to chicks is all about displaying emotions that you can't in real life. It's not just the whiny, pleading voice it's the cringey lyrics as well. It's so girls can indulge in an Alpha (pop star musician) being Beta fantasy. Ordinary guys who act pleadingly and write love letters, etc typically aren't Alphas and thus would get shat on in real life.
 

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As to why this has increased, it's all part of the Satanic Inversion Agenda - in this case to denigrate masculinity by removing it from the mainstream. The industry started it off by promoting boy bands in the late 90's and it's been readily accepted due to the overall feminization of the society.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Manly voices are still found in manly kinds of music as much as manly actors are still found in action movies.

The problem is that any product made for men is now becoming secondary in the mainstream media.
 
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