"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why do all mainstream male singers sound like pvssies these days?

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Anyone else make this same observation?

What happened to the masculine voices like we had pre-2000? They were raw, virile and ballsy. Now we have these wimpy sounding guys. Literally all of them.

Do record labels and music execs not seek out masculine voices anymore? Or is there no demand for it anymore? And if either, which came first?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You can listen to male vocalists and not be gay...
Also, I agree with op. Most male singers these days crank it up a few notes just because higher notes, for some reason, turn on the teenage girls listening. No clue why (this is why most female adults have switched over to better music, because they don’t wet themselves looking at boy bands anymore)
 

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Most male singers these days crank it up a few notes just because higher notes, for some reason, turn on the teenage girls listening.
An odd phenomenon, because it's usually accepted that a deep masculine voice in conversation will appeal to females. But popular music seems to favor males who can sing in higher registers (country notwithstanding). Maybe because the ability to sing high is rarer in males, so it's seen as a greater skill, and helps them to stand out.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah, cause you're gay if you like Metallic or Guns N' Roses. Right. :rolleyes:
No disrespect intended. That's a concert, not a music video. But sure I look at music videos with guys mainly on it as well on occasion, such as Madness "Our House", or something from the 80s like Mr Mister. I'm not obsessed by them I guess is what I mean to say.

Like take this video for example:

I've only watched it once or twice and then I leave it alone. Anymore than that then you know it wouldn't feel right. Videos that feature one guy taking the screen....I don't know. Do you think that video is very masculine for Mr. Chad here? Its a recent music video.
 

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You mean like this?


or this


I love high voices man... I'm probably gay, who knows. :D

 
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Common this is a good song, lol... this might aswell be the Sosuave anthem
 

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An odd phenomenon, because it's usually accepted that a deep masculine voice in conversation will appeal to females. But popular music seems to favor males who can sing in higher registers (country notwithstanding). Maybe because the ability to sing high is rarer in males, so it's seen as a greater skill, and helps them to stand out.
Popular music that appeals to chicks is all about displaying emotions that you can't in real life. It's not just the whiny, pleading voice it's the cringey lyrics as well. It's so girls can indulge in an Alpha (pop star musician) being Beta fantasy. Ordinary guys who act pleadingly and write love letters, etc typically aren't Alphas and thus would get shat on in real life.
 

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As to why this has increased, it's all part of the Satanic Inversion Agenda - in this case to denigrate masculinity by removing it from the mainstream. The industry started it off by promoting boy bands in the late 90's and it's been readily accepted due to the overall feminization of the society.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Manly voices are still found in manly kinds of music as much as manly actors are still found in action movies.

The problem is that any product made for men is now becoming secondary in the mainstream media.
 
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