Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why did you start visiting this site?

Why did you start frequenting SoSuave.net?

  • I sucked with women and wanted to fix it.

    Votes: 12 41.4%
  • I was OK with women but wanted to get laid MORE!

    Votes: 6 20.7%
  • I was fine with women but just wanted to help the struggling kids.

    Votes: 2 6.9%
  • Self-improvement issues unrelated to women. Emotional, philosophical, and so forth.

    Votes: 6 20.7%
  • Boredom. There was nothing missing from my life I thought this site could help with.

    Votes: 3 10.3%

  • Total voters
    29

Furyguy

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Let me preface this with one thing: statements like
"I could never get a girl to like me and it was making me depressed!!"
should most likely fall under one of the top three categories. I say this because if you were depressed for OTHER reasons, this is most likely NOT the site you would have chosen to help you. If your obesity was causing depression, you would have found a weight loss site. If the death of a loved one was causing depression, you would have found a grief counseling or some such site. But because it was chicks, you decided to stay here. In any case, use your best judgment.

This research is partially just curiosity, partially me wanting to help others, and partially me wanting to help myself.


So I will tell you my own extremely interesting story. I WANTED TO GET LAID!

I just turned 20. Yeah I was ****ing terrible with women. My life's history with women: one hook-up, with a friend's girlfriend who was just pissed at him (lol), no girlfriends, no lays, no nothing. I wanted to know why I was such a ****ing pathetic loser with women while other guys had no problems. The words to say, way to act, etc etc. Wanted to figure out what was wrong with me.

No underlying philosophical or emotional issues at heart, I just wanted to fvck some b!tches.

You?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cinamon

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I came to get some insight after a really disastrous date.

I stayed to try to understand what goes through a guys mind better.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pjtheman

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I came here because absolutly sucked with women, I was starting college and still a virgin while all of my friends were getting laid. I couldn't get women to stick around long enough to get any and used what I learnt here to get a thiriving sex life
 
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