"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why did you start visiting this site?

Why did you start frequenting SoSuave.net?

  • I sucked with women and wanted to fix it.

    Votes: 12 41.4%

  • I was OK with women but wanted to get laid MORE!

    Votes: 6 20.7%

  • I was fine with women but just wanted to help the struggling kids.

    Votes: 2 6.9%

  • Self-improvement issues unrelated to women. Emotional, philosophical, and so forth.

    Votes: 6 20.7%

  • Boredom. There was nothing missing from my life I thought this site could help with.

    Votes: 3 10.3%
  • Total voters
    29
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Furyguy

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Let me preface this with one thing: statements like
"I could never get a girl to like me and it was making me depressed!!"
should most likely fall under one of the top three categories. I say this because if you were depressed for OTHER reasons, this is most likely NOT the site you would have chosen to help you. If your obesity was causing depression, you would have found a weight loss site. If the death of a loved one was causing depression, you would have found a grief counseling or some such site. But because it was chicks, you decided to stay here. In any case, use your best judgment.

This research is partially just curiosity, partially me wanting to help others, and partially me wanting to help myself.


So I will tell you my own extremely interesting story. I WANTED TO GET LAID!

I just turned 20. Yeah I was ****ing terrible with women. My life's history with women: one hook-up, with a friend's girlfriend who was just pissed at him (lol), no girlfriends, no lays, no nothing. I wanted to know why I was such a ****ing pathetic loser with women while other guys had no problems. The words to say, way to act, etc etc. Wanted to figure out what was wrong with me.

No underlying philosophical or emotional issues at heart, I just wanted to fvck some b!tches.

You?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cinamon

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I came to get some insight after a really disastrous date.

I stayed to try to understand what goes through a guys mind better.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pjtheman

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I came here because absolutly sucked with women, I was starting college and still a virgin while all of my friends were getting laid. I couldn't get women to stick around long enough to get any and used what I learnt here to get a thiriving sex life
 
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