"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why did you start visiting this site?

Why did you start frequenting SoSuave.net?

  • I sucked with women and wanted to fix it.

    Votes: 12 41.4%

  • I was OK with women but wanted to get laid MORE!

    Votes: 6 20.7%

  • I was fine with women but just wanted to help the struggling kids.

    Votes: 2 6.9%

  • Self-improvement issues unrelated to women. Emotional, philosophical, and so forth.

    Votes: 6 20.7%

  • Boredom. There was nothing missing from my life I thought this site could help with.

    Votes: 3 10.3%
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Furyguy

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Let me preface this with one thing: statements like
"I could never get a girl to like me and it was making me depressed!!"
should most likely fall under one of the top three categories. I say this because if you were depressed for OTHER reasons, this is most likely NOT the site you would have chosen to help you. If your obesity was causing depression, you would have found a weight loss site. If the death of a loved one was causing depression, you would have found a grief counseling or some such site. But because it was chicks, you decided to stay here. In any case, use your best judgment.

This research is partially just curiosity, partially me wanting to help others, and partially me wanting to help myself.


So I will tell you my own extremely interesting story. I WANTED TO GET LAID!

I just turned 20. Yeah I was ****ing terrible with women. My life's history with women: one hook-up, with a friend's girlfriend who was just pissed at him (lol), no girlfriends, no lays, no nothing. I wanted to know why I was such a ****ing pathetic loser with women while other guys had no problems. The words to say, way to act, etc etc. Wanted to figure out what was wrong with me.

No underlying philosophical or emotional issues at heart, I just wanted to fvck some b!tches.

You?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cinamon

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I came to get some insight after a really disastrous date.

I stayed to try to understand what goes through a guys mind better.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pjtheman

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I came here because absolutly sucked with women, I was starting college and still a virgin while all of my friends were getting laid. I couldn't get women to stick around long enough to get any and used what I learnt here to get a thiriving sex life
 
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