"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"Why did it take you so long to ask me out?"
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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it's all about speakin a foreign language. Women are subtle, for a reason. They dont want to be called ho's that's my experience. Thank God that we live in a time, at least in the western world, where women are empowered enough to make any advances at all. I think that girls are just as much animal as guys are, but they have to pretend they aren't because society tells them that its bad for women to be horny. or atleast admit that you're horny to a guy. Guys say "I'm horny" Girls say nothing its all in their body language. Here's what i've learned in the past couple years from SoSuave and other places. spacial proximity, in western culture people have personal space bubbles, and if you break those bubbles when you're uninvited they get annoyed with you. Women getting close to you is pretty much always welcomed but for guys it's different. unfortuneately, we are the choosee's not the choosers. That's how it is in the animal world. Males put on a huge display, women, pick the one with the best display. But it's confusing with humans, because women are the one on display, but they are the ones who choose, so, it's kinda bakward, and messed up. But when you are out there just think of the natural world and act accordingly and you'll get what you want. you have to make a diplay of yourself, which means work out, extensively, eat right, and do full sit ups they work better. I can't stress enough how important a flat stomach is, and if you are the special one with the 4,6,or 8 pack genes then, pay your dues at the gym get in shape, and you'll get more wink wink nudge nudge. I think i should follow my own advice. he he he