"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Why did it take you so long to ask me out?"
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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it's all about speakin a foreign language. Women are subtle, for a reason. They dont want to be called ho's that's my experience. Thank God that we live in a time, at least in the western world, where women are empowered enough to make any advances at all. I think that girls are just as much animal as guys are, but they have to pretend they aren't because society tells them that its bad for women to be horny. or atleast admit that you're horny to a guy. Guys say "I'm horny" Girls say nothing its all in their body language. Here's what i've learned in the past couple years from SoSuave and other places. spacial proximity, in western culture people have personal space bubbles, and if you break those bubbles when you're uninvited they get annoyed with you. Women getting close to you is pretty much always welcomed but for guys it's different. unfortuneately, we are the choosee's not the choosers. That's how it is in the animal world. Males put on a huge display, women, pick the one with the best display. But it's confusing with humans, because women are the one on display, but they are the ones who choose, so, it's kinda bakward, and messed up. But when you are out there just think of the natural world and act accordingly and you'll get what you want. you have to make a diplay of yourself, which means work out, extensively, eat right, and do full sit ups they work better. I can't stress enough how important a flat stomach is, and if you are the special one with the 4,6,or 8 pack genes then, pay your dues at the gym get in shape, and you'll get more wink wink nudge nudge. I think i should follow my own advice. he he he