"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why did i attract many attention by dressing this way

tom121

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Today everywhere I go, I was like getting greeted by many ladies, like before I was always getting the "look away/down" but just today... I felt like god



cheap black suit that was 2x bigger than my body bought at walmart - $15

jacket, I had this since high school, yeah it's like medium size or something like that - $25

getting checked out at, priceless



what has caused all the ladies suddenly attracted to me?

I am really confused
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you dressed better, you would be getting checked out even more, man!
I realized this after my dressing like a little too casual in my first college semester, after I started dressing better it made a big difference.

also, if you "think" that certain clothes will improve your appearance, this will improve your confidence, which results in a more confident posture and facial expressions- however slight they might be.
 

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Im cheap as hell... I spend little money on clothes considering for how long I wear them. and i wasnt saying 'dress all pimped out' or anything.
 

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well in our lovely vancouver, a decent looking clothes are $50~100+ EACH :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mojo604

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yea i hear you... the trick is to look around for sales... in some places you can get a nice shirt or long sleeve shirt for 15-20$...but pants...i havent bought pants in ages, i can never find anything worth buying below 50bux, even crappy jeans are expensive wtf. one day i just got pissed off and spent 100$ on 2 pants... ive used those pants for like 3 years and counting. so i guess it wasnt that bad. but it still hurts to shell out cash like that for just ****.
 

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Dressing up makes a big change. You could even put some style in your casual clothes. At college, I wore my red pumas and AX zipup (both bought on sale). I was getting looks, the 6-7 would look and then away, a few of the hotties scanned top to bottom. Felt amazing all day ;)
 

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I get more looks then when I was on that Gucci phase and more than all these thug wannabe's around here.

I think my look would fare well with an Asian guy:

Polo's,novelty tees,dark colored cargo(fawk camoflauge and khaki),sweats, ft jeans,all things that are your approriate size(m-l with me).With suede puma's and throw back low top sneakers from converse to adidas..like an old-shcool hiphop look.

Some accesories like a couple of skull rings or dog-tags,wristbands,etc.Nice celly,etc.

I don't mess with cologne cuz everyone smells like a department store nowadays it's really annoying,plus it gives me headaches.

I just use lotion,bodywash,spray..

My hair is pretty normal,I haven't seen many people with my type of hair..it's just normal.So I let it grow out a bit and just brush it comb it up and out afro-style when it's thick.Fade when i get it cut.

I got a clean shaven face with a goatee and a light mustache.Nothing else.

I only dress up when it's time to go out.And if I can get away it I don't.

^None of that is expensive except for the sneakers.I don't dress like the typical latino or black guy.But I don't really look like one either,people confuse me for indian-arab.
 

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Originally posted by tom121
well in our lovely vancouver, a decent looking clothes are $50~100+ EACH :(
everywhere decent looking clothes are above $50, man... it's the fashion mania;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wow walmart is even in canada??? man theyre everywhere
 
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