"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why did i attract many attention by dressing this way

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Today everywhere I go, I was like getting greeted by many ladies, like before I was always getting the "look away/down" but just today... I felt like god



cheap black suit that was 2x bigger than my body bought at walmart - $15

jacket, I had this since high school, yeah it's like medium size or something like that - $25

getting checked out at, priceless



what has caused all the ladies suddenly attracted to me?

I am really confused
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you dressed better, you would be getting checked out even more, man!
I realized this after my dressing like a little too casual in my first college semester, after I started dressing better it made a big difference.

also, if you "think" that certain clothes will improve your appearance, this will improve your confidence, which results in a more confident posture and facial expressions- however slight they might be.
 

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Im cheap as hell... I spend little money on clothes considering for how long I wear them. and i wasnt saying 'dress all pimped out' or anything.
 

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well in our lovely vancouver, a decent looking clothes are $50~100+ EACH :(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yea i hear you... the trick is to look around for sales... in some places you can get a nice shirt or long sleeve shirt for 15-20$...but pants...i havent bought pants in ages, i can never find anything worth buying below 50bux, even crappy jeans are expensive wtf. one day i just got pissed off and spent 100$ on 2 pants... ive used those pants for like 3 years and counting. so i guess it wasnt that bad. but it still hurts to shell out cash like that for just ****.
 

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Dressing up makes a big change. You could even put some style in your casual clothes. At college, I wore my red pumas and AX zipup (both bought on sale). I was getting looks, the 6-7 would look and then away, a few of the hotties scanned top to bottom. Felt amazing all day ;)
 

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I get more looks then when I was on that Gucci phase and more than all these thug wannabe's around here.

I think my look would fare well with an Asian guy:

Polo's,novelty tees,dark colored cargo(fawk camoflauge and khaki),sweats, ft jeans,all things that are your approriate size(m-l with me).With suede puma's and throw back low top sneakers from converse to adidas..like an old-shcool hiphop look.

Some accesories like a couple of skull rings or dog-tags,wristbands,etc.Nice celly,etc.

I don't mess with cologne cuz everyone smells like a department store nowadays it's really annoying,plus it gives me headaches.

I just use lotion,bodywash,spray..

My hair is pretty normal,I haven't seen many people with my type of hair..it's just normal.So I let it grow out a bit and just brush it comb it up and out afro-style when it's thick.Fade when i get it cut.

I got a clean shaven face with a goatee and a light mustache.Nothing else.

I only dress up when it's time to go out.And if I can get away it I don't.

^None of that is expensive except for the sneakers.I don't dress like the typical latino or black guy.But I don't really look like one either,people confuse me for indian-arab.
 

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Originally posted by tom121
well in our lovely vancouver, a decent looking clothes are $50~100+ EACH :(
everywhere decent looking clothes are above $50, man... it's the fashion mania;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wow walmart is even in canada??? man theyre everywhere
 
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