"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why did i attract many attention by dressing this way

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Today everywhere I go, I was like getting greeted by many ladies, like before I was always getting the "look away/down" but just today... I felt like god



cheap black suit that was 2x bigger than my body bought at walmart - $15

jacket, I had this since high school, yeah it's like medium size or something like that - $25

getting checked out at, priceless



what has caused all the ladies suddenly attracted to me?

I am really confused
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you dressed better, you would be getting checked out even more, man!
I realized this after my dressing like a little too casual in my first college semester, after I started dressing better it made a big difference.

also, if you "think" that certain clothes will improve your appearance, this will improve your confidence, which results in a more confident posture and facial expressions- however slight they might be.
 

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Im cheap as hell... I spend little money on clothes considering for how long I wear them. and i wasnt saying 'dress all pimped out' or anything.
 

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well in our lovely vancouver, a decent looking clothes are $50~100+ EACH :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yea i hear you... the trick is to look around for sales... in some places you can get a nice shirt or long sleeve shirt for 15-20$...but pants...i havent bought pants in ages, i can never find anything worth buying below 50bux, even crappy jeans are expensive wtf. one day i just got pissed off and spent 100$ on 2 pants... ive used those pants for like 3 years and counting. so i guess it wasnt that bad. but it still hurts to shell out cash like that for just ****.
 

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Dressing up makes a big change. You could even put some style in your casual clothes. At college, I wore my red pumas and AX zipup (both bought on sale). I was getting looks, the 6-7 would look and then away, a few of the hotties scanned top to bottom. Felt amazing all day ;)
 

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I get more looks then when I was on that Gucci phase and more than all these thug wannabe's around here.

I think my look would fare well with an Asian guy:

Polo's,novelty tees,dark colored cargo(fawk camoflauge and khaki),sweats, ft jeans,all things that are your approriate size(m-l with me).With suede puma's and throw back low top sneakers from converse to adidas..like an old-shcool hiphop look.

Some accesories like a couple of skull rings or dog-tags,wristbands,etc.Nice celly,etc.

I don't mess with cologne cuz everyone smells like a department store nowadays it's really annoying,plus it gives me headaches.

I just use lotion,bodywash,spray..

My hair is pretty normal,I haven't seen many people with my type of hair..it's just normal.So I let it grow out a bit and just brush it comb it up and out afro-style when it's thick.Fade when i get it cut.

I got a clean shaven face with a goatee and a light mustache.Nothing else.

I only dress up when it's time to go out.And if I can get away it I don't.

^None of that is expensive except for the sneakers.I don't dress like the typical latino or black guy.But I don't really look like one either,people confuse me for indian-arab.
 

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Originally posted by tom121
well in our lovely vancouver, a decent looking clothes are $50~100+ EACH :(
everywhere decent looking clothes are above $50, man... it's the fashion mania;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wow walmart is even in canada??? man theyre everywhere
 
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