"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why did he get banned?

MysteryWoman

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Just curious why does some like Tiburon get banned and PRL get away it? Why practice double standards?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Huh..

He got banned? :eek:
It's a strange world...
 

Giovanni Casanova

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We usually don't discuss the reasons why certain people get banned. Usually, we don't have to -- their posts speak for themselves. Tiburon was an annoying little troll who spazzed out every time a moderator moved one of his threads. He was initially banned, but he came back as TiburonII. He proclaimed that he was Public Enemy #1 and "here to deliver the truths" to us all.

You know how sometimes it's fun to have an idiot around so you have someone to make fun of? TiburonII serves that role, but he only hangs around when people give him attention. He's an attention wh*re. Therefore, we haven't seen much of him. Still, TiburonII isn't banned.

As for PRL, some people like the guy. There's no accounting for taste. Me... I think he's like a retard on a field trip, but whatever. If you have something specific that's particularly objectionable, we'll take a look.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
We usually don't discuss the reasons why certain people get banned. Usually, we don't have to -- their posts speak for themselves. Tiburon was an annoying little troll who spazzed out every time a moderator moved one of his threads. He was initially banned, but he came back as TiburonII. He proclaimed that he was Public Enemy #1 and "here to deliver the truths" to us all.

You know how sometimes it's fun to have an idiot around so you have someone to make fun of? TiburonII serves that role, but he only hangs around when people give him attention. He's an attention wh*re. Therefore, we haven't seen much of him. Still, TiburonII isn't banned.

As for PRL, some people like the guy. There's no accounting for taste. Me... I think he's like a retard on a field trip, but whatever. If you have something specific that's particularly objectionable, we'll take a look.
lol
 

MysteryWoman

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
We usually don't discuss the reasons why certain people get banned. Usually, we don't have to -- their posts speak for themselves. Tiburon was an annoying little troll who spazzed out every time a moderator moved one of his threads. He was initially banned, but he came back as TiburonII. He proclaimed that he was Public Enemy #1 and "here to deliver the truths" to us all.

You know how sometimes it's fun to have an idiot around so you have someone to make fun of? TiburonII serves that role, but he only hangs around when people give him attention. He's an attention wh*re. Therefore, we haven't seen much of him. Still, TiburonII isn't banned.

As for PRL, some people like the guy. There's no accounting for taste. Me... I think he's like a retard on a field trip, but whatever. If you have something specific that's particularly objectionable, we'll take a look.
I haven't been around much but much lately was just curious. As for PRL I just ignore him, I leave it to you guys to decide whether or not you want to do something with him
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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