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I agree with the mindset and the frame. But either a woman is able to be attracted to a man who can commit, or she can't. I agree he should not be overeager to commit, because you have to screen heavily and all. But at some point, the time may come. If you go strictly by the metaphor, a man should never, under any circumstances, be willing to commit. And while that may be true for some, I don't believe it is for all.
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That's the underlying message in AntiDump's metaphor; not an indictment on LTRs. Too many newbies come here overly thirsty and desperate for an LTR like the OP, thus pushing all worthy prospects away. The metaphor succinctly delivers the DJ mentality to shift the "sniper paradigm" into one of "having fun and seeing where it goes." Once the newbie surrenders his LTR thirst, he will operate with authentic strength (as opposed to neediness) and effectively in his dealings with women whether that be ONSs or LTRs.
Dave you're not even playing the numbers game to get that first date. You reject yourself automatically and don't approach nor do you do OLD. Just man up and start approaching and do OLD. If you're striking out at least you're making an effort. You sound like a guy miserable to be working at Wal-Mart but not even trying to get an education or to find a better job because it's too hard and no one will want to hire you. It's bullshvt. You think these women are impossible for you but they still end up dating guys only making 40k or who aren't quite as hot as them. You may think the Wal-Mart example is unrealistic, but you sound just like him.
This is a problem I have with a lot of seduction material. It seems to assume that all "newbies" are coming from the same place, with the same problems - in this case, that they all have a thirst for LTRs. I don't think the Frog guy is thirsting for a LTR. I have always believed that everyone's strengths and weaknesses are different, and can use different tweaks to improve themselves.
This is true. However, the metaphor was for OP, and that is one of his problems.
Agree with that. As someone said, he has the cart before the horse. He wants to skip the book and just read the last chapter.
I have the ability to change anyone's dating life via OLD. Even Dave's. I should start a business, but I don't see millions in it, so not worth my time. I do what I do strictly for entertainment value as well as my idea of giving back.
I do think there is value for such a "life coach" type of person. Like I said, I think a lot of guys problems with women are highly individualized. If a discerning coach could observe them and figure out where they were going wrong, and design solutions and exercises specifically for them, I think that could help a lot more than a "one size fits all" approach. But a lot of such PUA coaches are shady, or charge ridiculous amounts. Or it's just not a practical thing to be doing in the first place. Time's too valuable.
This. Looks and game are everything assuming you are going for young chicks under 25....90% of the chicks i bang have no idea what I do for a living or what car i drive. Women in their 30’s or late 20’s might have higher standards because they are looking for marriage material but I’ll take a hot 23 year old that is easy to impress over an entitled 27 year old any day.
I have a problem with this. I will be successful. I will have money in my 30s. But, what's the use? In the end, I get a woman with used up vagina.
Give me a virgin or a woman with a low sex count when I am in my mid 30s.
that's a bullsh*t analogy
bro I'm just trying to get a date or two
If you're talking about getting a woman in her 30s, if you just keep yourself in good shape, you can get an attractive woman in her 30s without even doing well financially
Except that what you are saying isn’t true, because you are basing your thinking on anecdotal evidence of the one happy couple you know, and ignoring that divorce rate is nearing 60%.
