"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why can't we search 3 letter words?

Viper

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Yes, I'm just wondering why can't we search topics with letters less than 3 words? There are alot of things you cannot search because of this:
Don Juan
AFC
HB
Okay, not alot that I can think of right now, but these are commonly searched DJ terms that we cannot search for because they are under 3 words.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vincent

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Because MySQL limits data base queries to 4 characters.

It's not a big deal and you'll live without being able to search for AFC. Get off the board every once in a while.
 

italostud

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It's common to all of the message boards that run off these kind of engines.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
Because MySQL limits data base queries to 4 characters.

It's not a big deal and you'll live without being able to search for AFC. Get off the board every once in a while.
This is the only vBulletin I've ever been to that can't search 3 characters. Stop making stuff up and pretending to be a big shot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
This is the only vBulletin I've ever been to that can't search 3 characters. Stop making stuff up and pretending to be a big shot.
If you can even tell me what MySQL is I'll be impressed let alone the database query aspects of it. The base query is 4 characters. Although it is possible to rework the database to run on a 3 character queery but the response time would be much greater and frankly it's not worth it.

Cut the mod sass out MF. I know you hate us but you don't have to try and give us crap everytime we post.
 

cave dweller

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2 stars

Viper,

Use two stars.......(it should work)

ie:

*afc*

or

*sex*

cave dweller
 

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Those terms you mentioned are all so commonly used on this site, why would you even want to search for them? Almost every single thread would come up.
 
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