"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why can't some hurt men move past being attached to being unplugged?

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Seems like some men have an attachment disorder. Meaning they admit they were attached to being plugged into the matrix and now switch that attachment with being attached to have unplugging from the matrix.

At what point do these men convince themselves they've unplugged without the obsessive need to keep repeating they've unplugged like a parrot recorded on a broken record?

It's like trying to brainwash yourself you're so "over her" by telling yourself and any and everyone who will listen instead of internally accepting it and moving forward.

Is it some kind of need to being attached to something? IE: The attachment to being "unplugged".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MadMan said:
Seems like some men have an attachment disorder. Meaning they admit they were attached to being plugged into the matrix and now switch that attachment with being attached to have unplugging from the matrix.

At what point do these men convince themselves they've unplugged without the obsessive need to keep repeating they've unplugged like a parrot recorded on a broken record?

It's like trying to brainwash yourself you're so "over her" by telling yourself and any and everyone who will listen instead of internally accepting it and moving forward.

Is it some kind of need to being attached to something? IE: The attachment to being "unplugged".
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Undoing decades of cuck behavior doesn't happen overnight. A lot of guys(myself included) have been making mistakes to some degree their whole lives. The healing time depends on the size of the ego imo. But there's nothing wrong with a big ego, as long you have the skills and stable core to back it up. Some guys are simply working on rebuilding that core. Talking about and teaching what they've recently learned helps to instill it into their own lives. They may repeat the same things for years before making noticable progress on their personal journey.
 
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Over ten years for me and I still locate small things, small lies, still filtering through there but they are not connected to women.

The red pill is wayyyyy more than just women.
 
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