PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Agree or disagree?
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
He's talking more so about bodybuildingOk I don't compete but weightlifting is not a waste of time in my opinion. It's an incredible stress reliever. As far as bodybuilding goes, I really don't feel anyways about it. Guys do it and it's their thing. i got respect for them. If they want to do it, do it.
Size can be good to a certain level,some people work out and more often than not you cant tell because lack of bulk.I think it is. I like being low body fat and I enjoy my abs. It makes me feel good and look good.
Compound movements vs isolated movements. I don’t even work core outside of deadlifts. That’s more than enough. Deadlifts are the perfect lift.
I’m in and out. I only lift heavy one day a week. It’s a stagger away from the bar intensity.
Diet keeps fat off better than workouts. Once you get there.
I’m already 6’2” and 215 pounds. I have no intention of getting bigger. I think it’s not very functional to excessively bulk your muscles. I rely on agility in most of my activities and it’s more functional.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You have a grasp on what I’m trying to achieve. I do wind sprints I. The summer and dead mill sprints when it’s cold out.Size can be good to a certain level,some people work out and more often than not you cant tell because lack of bulk.
Im not talking about getting huge but i think a little bigger is not bad.
However when you lose flexibility, agility or explosiveness its not worth it.
I agree deadlift best exercise work more body part than anything else.
It will help with almost every body part except the chest. Id recomend a little bit of bench too, unless your chest is already developed
Watch the videoDidn’t watch the video but I have been eating healthy and working out religiously since 1997. At 38 years old I feel exactly the same if not better than I did in my early 20’s. I do not think working out and keeping yourself in shape is a waste of time. Nothing motivates me more than seeing the 60 and 70 year olds at my gym that still maintain an active life! One 70 something just went on a 14 day moose hunt in Russia... where he logged over 100 Miles of hiking over brutal terrain. That’s the reason I workout and keep myself in amazing shape... quality of life and longevity.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The point of the video is men don't need to bodybuild and waste hours in the gym 5 6 times a week if they are not doing it competitively. The reason why is how hard it is on the joints, and a few other reasonsNo way buddy, bodybuilding needs focus, courage, endurance, self motivation, hard work & dedication and pays u back a strong blend of less disease prone body, toned figure, attractive personality, self confidence , positive approach and infact loads of money if u enters into the fitness industry.
Bodybuilding is not fr losers.
As we all have heard that phrase ‘ A healthy mind resides in a healthy body’.
As far as waste of money is concerned, use of steroids and over the top use of protein supplements definitely leads to money waste.
+1Havent watched the video so take my comment with caution but I am going to answer the question based on the title.
Bodybuilding or working out has been the single biggest catalyst in my life next to my mom dieing and reading the book of pook.
It taught me that hard work prevails all and that anything good in life takes consistent action everyday and that the smallest decisions can have the biggest impact down the road. The health and looks are the side effects.
Agreed but the 4'9 incel is ****ed. No boot camp or tren will fix that. Guys need to play the hand tgey werr dealt.I truly believe that most people can look like Bradley Martin look him up on YouTube naturally. In fact, I believe he’s natural. Look at his mindset and you can accomplish ANYTHING. This isn’t witty fairy nullshir. This world is YOURS if you put in the work.
Tell that to the lad who hasn't had a date in 20yrs lolIf he has the right mentality, he can draw people to his frame that being short is the ****. This is hard to consider because people who are short are programmed to think that he is screwed in an early age. If he takes control of his life, he can use it to his advantage by showing people how little he cares and his awesomeness will shine through.
Buff maybe but lean and tones like Brad pitt in fight club are differentRespectfully disagree. In my opinion there's nothing quick or cheap or convenient about building an exceptionally muscled and lean physique.
If it didn't require much time, I suspect there'd be many more buff-looking bros.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.