"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Why be a PUA, when you could be a Player?
- Thread starter rhodey
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MisterMcGee
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Why be either? yawn
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Otb=rhodey
Can you post pictures or proof(field reports) of you being a "Super-Player"?
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rhodey said:
Can you post pictures or proof(field reports) of you being a "Super-Player"?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Smack said:
Dude don't say that, what if a guru hears you say something like that? then you gonna run them out of busniness
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MisterMcGee
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Life's about so much more than women. Get your mind on a different track, like a hobby, work, or hanging out with friends, and life becomes a lot more fun and rewarding.
Women shouldn't be a hobby. It's not that fulfilling and there are, believe it or not, funner things obsess your mind over.
Women shouldn't be a hobby. It's not that fulfilling and there are, believe it or not, funner things obsess your mind over.
Daydream Engineer
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Boo!
An AFC, a pua and a player are all the same. They all chase women, and worry about them all the time, like a parasite.
People who are good at something are usually really secure in themselves and their ability.. and because of that they don't go bragging.
Anybody can be a "guru", but how many can be a real down to earth Natural?
An AFC, a pua and a player are all the same. They all chase women, and worry about them all the time, like a parasite.
People who are good at something are usually really secure in themselves and their ability.. and because of that they don't go bragging.
Anybody can be a "guru", but how many can be a real down to earth Natural?
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Why not be a fvcking MAN that takes what he wants ?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.