"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why be a PUA, when you could be a Player?
- Thread starter rhodey
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MisterMcGee
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Why be either? yawn
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Otb=rhodey
Can you post pictures or proof(field reports) of you being a "Super-Player"?
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rhodey said:
Can you post pictures or proof(field reports) of you being a "Super-Player"?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Smack said:
Dude don't say that, what if a guru hears you say something like that? then you gonna run them out of busniness
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MisterMcGee
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Life's about so much more than women. Get your mind on a different track, like a hobby, work, or hanging out with friends, and life becomes a lot more fun and rewarding.
Women shouldn't be a hobby. It's not that fulfilling and there are, believe it or not, funner things obsess your mind over.
Women shouldn't be a hobby. It's not that fulfilling and there are, believe it or not, funner things obsess your mind over.
Daydream Engineer
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Boo!
An AFC, a pua and a player are all the same. They all chase women, and worry about them all the time, like a parasite.
People who are good at something are usually really secure in themselves and their ability.. and because of that they don't go bragging.
Anybody can be a "guru", but how many can be a real down to earth Natural?
An AFC, a pua and a player are all the same. They all chase women, and worry about them all the time, like a parasite.
People who are good at something are usually really secure in themselves and their ability.. and because of that they don't go bragging.
Anybody can be a "guru", but how many can be a real down to earth Natural?
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Why not be a fvcking MAN that takes what he wants ?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.