"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why be a PUA, when you could be a Player?
- Thread starter rhodey
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MisterMcGee
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Why be either? yawn
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Otb=rhodey
Can you post pictures or proof(field reports) of you being a "Super-Player"?
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rhodey said:
Can you post pictures or proof(field reports) of you being a "Super-Player"?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Smack said:
Dude don't say that, what if a guru hears you say something like that? then you gonna run them out of busniness
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MisterMcGee
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Life's about so much more than women. Get your mind on a different track, like a hobby, work, or hanging out with friends, and life becomes a lot more fun and rewarding.
Women shouldn't be a hobby. It's not that fulfilling and there are, believe it or not, funner things obsess your mind over.
Women shouldn't be a hobby. It's not that fulfilling and there are, believe it or not, funner things obsess your mind over.
Daydream Engineer
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Boo!
An AFC, a pua and a player are all the same. They all chase women, and worry about them all the time, like a parasite.
People who are good at something are usually really secure in themselves and their ability.. and because of that they don't go bragging.
Anybody can be a "guru", but how many can be a real down to earth Natural?
An AFC, a pua and a player are all the same. They all chase women, and worry about them all the time, like a parasite.
People who are good at something are usually really secure in themselves and their ability.. and because of that they don't go bragging.
Anybody can be a "guru", but how many can be a real down to earth Natural?
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Why not be a fvcking MAN that takes what he wants ?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.