"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why asking for advice isn't always good

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Eternal

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I notice a LOT of people on here asking for advice on just about everything. While some of the questions are good, some aren't. Here is why:

You won't get the best results from other peoples advice. We don't know the whole situation, don't know how you think, and don't know exactly how thing will turn out.

Besides, it is best to do something and then learn from it. You'll learn 10 times more from DOING than from just trying to get advice. Go talk to a girl. Go ahead, any girl. Now write down anything you want advice on. Ask for it, but go talk to another girl before reading the advice. Now do it again and still don't read the first advice. Ok, now come back and read the advice. I bet that some of your questions got answered once you actually did something (approached the second and third time.) Plus, I bet you learned some new things too.

Remember, you don't become a great baseball hitter just by asking. You don't become a great driver just by asking. You don't become a great salesman just by asking.

You go out there and just do it to become better.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Eternal

this is great advice.
In fact for the most part this is the only advice you should need.
Experience.

Hey Eternal, how's your web site going?

I know I promised I would be active on it(cricket was my user name) but I haven't been.

Shortly after I said that, my dad got cancer and then he died last month. So I've been pretty fuucked up. So I hardly ever post anymore. I guess I just don't care at the moment.
 
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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
Eternal

this is great advice.
In fact for the most part this is the only advice you should need.
Experience.

Hey Eternal, how's your web site going?

I know I promised I would be active on it(cricket was my user name) but I haven't been.

Shortly after I said that, my dad got cancer and then he died last month. So I've been pretty fuucked up. So I hardly ever post anymore. I guess I just don't care at the moment.
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Hey man, sorry to hear about that. Hopefully you bounce back out of it and become the Helter Skelter you were before.

The site is currently defunct until I decide on what to do with it. Not a lot happened with it to begin with anyway.

Glad to see you back, even if it's limited.
 
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good solid advice.

Go out do.
review.
change accordingly.
go out do,
 
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