spider_007
Master Don Juan
It just hit me. I wonder haw many people are gona be hanging on the internat (this forum) on a new years (party day of the year).
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why are YOU here on a Friday night?
- Thread starter aftershock
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
h2o
Banned
B U M P
I'm going clubbing in a couple of minutes.
Get off your asses and go get some ass! :woo:
Good luck :cheer:
I'm going clubbing in a couple of minutes.
Get off your asses and go get some ass! :woo:
Good luck :cheer:
When I first turned 21, I spend about a year going out almost every Friday and Saturday nights to the stupid clubs and trendy bars. I'm not going to say its a waste of time, but its an experience, and it's a past experience. I laugh now when I read the main forum and some guy talks about his "approach" at the club as if that is some kind of accomplishment. I had plenty of approaches at the clubs and crowded bars, but any loser can do that so its worthless. You'll meet low quality women. I'm not saying not to have your fun and your one night stands (I still do on occassion), but Friday and Saturday nights aren't nearly as appealing to me anymore. If I do go out on those nights, it's going to be to a mellow place. I understand most of the posters here are 22 and under though.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I agree with Inc. Maybe it is age.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
h2o
Banned
eh...to each his own I guess. Maybe you went to "low-quality" clubs?
I say that because I just got back from the club, and I definitely had trouble trying to pull tonight. The other club I've gone to before, it's so easy to pull...but this one was really upscale...I barely danced with 3 girls and got only 2 numbers...that's pathetic. If it was the other club, I knew I'd get laid tonight.
I don't know, I just turned 21 this summer, I'll be taking advantage of it for a while...again, to each his own...
al77
Master Don Juan
Aren't people these days trying to get enougn drinking and clubbing experience before they actualy turn 21 (using fake id etc)? It seems it is not that fun when you are allowed to do those things anymore... At least this is what I noticed.