spider_007
Master Don Juan
It just hit me. I wonder haw many people are gona be hanging on the internat (this forum) on a new years (party day of the year).
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why are YOU here on a Friday night?
- Thread starter aftershock
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
h2o
Banned
B U M P
I'm going clubbing in a couple of minutes.
Get off your asses and go get some ass! :woo:
Good luck :cheer:
I'm going clubbing in a couple of minutes.
Get off your asses and go get some ass! :woo:
Good luck :cheer:
When I first turned 21, I spend about a year going out almost every Friday and Saturday nights to the stupid clubs and trendy bars. I'm not going to say its a waste of time, but its an experience, and it's a past experience. I laugh now when I read the main forum and some guy talks about his "approach" at the club as if that is some kind of accomplishment. I had plenty of approaches at the clubs and crowded bars, but any loser can do that so its worthless. You'll meet low quality women. I'm not saying not to have your fun and your one night stands (I still do on occassion), but Friday and Saturday nights aren't nearly as appealing to me anymore. If I do go out on those nights, it's going to be to a mellow place. I understand most of the posters here are 22 and under though.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I agree with Inc. Maybe it is age.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
h2o
Banned
eh...to each his own I guess. Maybe you went to "low-quality" clubs?
I say that because I just got back from the club, and I definitely had trouble trying to pull tonight. The other club I've gone to before, it's so easy to pull...but this one was really upscale...I barely danced with 3 girls and got only 2 numbers...that's pathetic. If it was the other club, I knew I'd get laid tonight.
I don't know, I just turned 21 this summer, I'll be taking advantage of it for a while...again, to each his own...
al77
Master Don Juan
Aren't people these days trying to get enougn drinking and clubbing experience before they actualy turn 21 (using fake id etc)? It seems it is not that fun when you are allowed to do those things anymore... At least this is what I noticed.