BackInTheGame78
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Why are men so needy and desperate?
Mostly upbringing and family life growing up.
Mostly upbringing and family life growing up.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why are women so broken?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sexual revolution.
Once you give women power to sleep with whomever they want when they are most fertile without consequences, destroys them and the fabric of the community.
Why do you think marriage was created? To keep women in check, not men. Otherwise the top Alpha Men and Kings would continue to stack up on wives and create offspring while the Beta Suckers would be left in the cold.
And when Beta men got no family -> got no incentive to work -> society doesn’t produce;
Rock on!
Once you give women power to sleep with whomever they want when they are most fertile without consequences, destroys them and the fabric of the community.
Why do you think marriage was created? To keep women in check, not men. Otherwise the top Alpha Men and Kings would continue to stack up on wives and create offspring while the Beta Suckers would be left in the cold.
And when Beta men got no family -> got no incentive to work -> society doesn’t produce;
Rock on!
This looks like a good read. I think I will get it. Thanks.If people here want the entire breakdown on why women are broken, then take a weekend to read this book!
It is the first book I recommend to men for understanding all this.
Sexual Utopia in Power|Paperback
Like many political revolutions, the sexual revolution of the 1960s began with a euphoric feeling of liberation. But when utopian programs clash with dissenters--and with reality itself--the result is chaos, which revolutionaries seek to quash with repression and terror. In Sexual Utopia...www.barnesandnoble.com
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soulforge
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The Muslims & Islam understands female nature.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I think the break up of the family unit & single moms raising children is a massive contributer to this current wave of Broken/Damaged girls.
Taking multiple cawks especially when they are young, leaves thes girls damaged for life.
Taking multiple cawks especially when they are young, leaves thes girls damaged for life.
Women are generally neurotic, selfish, self-centered, narcissistic, childish. Modern society has given them a free pass to be more so and more openly. When they are young, they get a lot of attention (their SMV is high). As they (men or women) get older, their neurosis gets more pronounced. Men are taught to take responsibility, and so a man knows that if something is not working then he has to be the catalyst for change [for himself, for a better life]. Women ALMOST never take responsibility. The idea that they might need to change themselves, improve almost never even enters their mind!
I have 95%+ of my friend's circle as women. I connect with women a lot easier because I am quite a deeper empathetic thinker. I am yet to EVER meet a woman who looks at herself in the mirror and says 'if I want my reality to change, then I need to change'. They usually blame the men, have REALLY HIGH UNREALISTIC expectations. I have some UGLY friends (3s and 4s, let's say) that want a guy who is a minimum 8 or 9! It kind of makes sense because women these days are masculinised and they want a 'pretty boy' as a prize for having their own money, their own careers, and being independent women. But it doesn't work like that ... men will never choose a financial/career stable woman OVER a woman with looks. Looks trumps every other dimension of another woman (that is not to say we ALSO don't want an emotionally stable, intelligent woman - of course we also want an attractive girl to be emotionally stable; other we will just pump and dump).
So this leads to women not accepting reality and being bitter about the dating market.. waiting for that 10/10 to come, and as a result be bit*** to men that don't meet the 10/10 criteria. Because the women are so worth it ..
I have 95%+ of my friend's circle as women. I connect with women a lot easier because I am quite a deeper empathetic thinker. I am yet to EVER meet a woman who looks at herself in the mirror and says 'if I want my reality to change, then I need to change'. They usually blame the men, have REALLY HIGH UNREALISTIC expectations. I have some UGLY friends (3s and 4s, let's say) that want a guy who is a minimum 8 or 9! It kind of makes sense because women these days are masculinised and they want a 'pretty boy' as a prize for having their own money, their own careers, and being independent women. But it doesn't work like that ... men will never choose a financial/career stable woman OVER a woman with looks. Looks trumps every other dimension of another woman (that is not to say we ALSO don't want an emotionally stable, intelligent woman - of course we also want an attractive girl to be emotionally stable; other we will just pump and dump).
So this leads to women not accepting reality and being bitter about the dating market.. waiting for that 10/10 to come, and as a result be bit*** to men that don't meet the 10/10 criteria. Because the women are so worth it ..
AureliusMaximus
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Their female operating system's decision making runs on "feelings" and that makes them unstable by default. Managing your life out from what you feel "right now" is without the guidance of a leader a guaranteed path to issues down the road.
Add feminism to that and you have a certified train wreck.
