BackInTheGame78
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Why are men so needy and desperate?
Mostly upbringing and family life growing up.
Mostly upbringing and family life growing up.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why are women so broken?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sexual revolution.
Once you give women power to sleep with whomever they want when they are most fertile without consequences, destroys them and the fabric of the community.
Why do you think marriage was created? To keep women in check, not men. Otherwise the top Alpha Men and Kings would continue to stack up on wives and create offspring while the Beta Suckers would be left in the cold.
And when Beta men got no family -> got no incentive to work -> society doesn’t produce;
Rock on!
Once you give women power to sleep with whomever they want when they are most fertile without consequences, destroys them and the fabric of the community.
Why do you think marriage was created? To keep women in check, not men. Otherwise the top Alpha Men and Kings would continue to stack up on wives and create offspring while the Beta Suckers would be left in the cold.
And when Beta men got no family -> got no incentive to work -> society doesn’t produce;
Rock on!
This looks like a good read. I think I will get it. Thanks.If people here want the entire breakdown on why women are broken, then take a weekend to read this book!
It is the first book I recommend to men for understanding all this.
Sexual Utopia in Power|Paperback
Like many political revolutions, the sexual revolution of the 1960s began with a euphoric feeling of liberation. But when utopian programs clash with dissenters--and with reality itself--the result is chaos, which revolutionaries seek to quash with repression and terror. In Sexual Utopia...www.barnesandnoble.com
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soulforge
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The Muslims & Islam understands female nature.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I think the break up of the family unit & single moms raising children is a massive contributer to this current wave of Broken/Damaged girls.
Taking multiple cawks especially when they are young, leaves thes girls damaged for life.
Taking multiple cawks especially when they are young, leaves thes girls damaged for life.
Women are generally neurotic, selfish, self-centered, narcissistic, childish. Modern society has given them a free pass to be more so and more openly. When they are young, they get a lot of attention (their SMV is high). As they (men or women) get older, their neurosis gets more pronounced. Men are taught to take responsibility, and so a man knows that if something is not working then he has to be the catalyst for change [for himself, for a better life]. Women ALMOST never take responsibility. The idea that they might need to change themselves, improve almost never even enters their mind!
I have 95%+ of my friend's circle as women. I connect with women a lot easier because I am quite a deeper empathetic thinker. I am yet to EVER meet a woman who looks at herself in the mirror and says 'if I want my reality to change, then I need to change'. They usually blame the men, have REALLY HIGH UNREALISTIC expectations. I have some UGLY friends (3s and 4s, let's say) that want a guy who is a minimum 8 or 9! It kind of makes sense because women these days are masculinised and they want a 'pretty boy' as a prize for having their own money, their own careers, and being independent women. But it doesn't work like that ... men will never choose a financial/career stable woman OVER a woman with looks. Looks trumps every other dimension of another woman (that is not to say we ALSO don't want an emotionally stable, intelligent woman - of course we also want an attractive girl to be emotionally stable; other we will just pump and dump).
So this leads to women not accepting reality and being bitter about the dating market.. waiting for that 10/10 to come, and as a result be bit*** to men that don't meet the 10/10 criteria. Because the women are so worth it ..
I have 95%+ of my friend's circle as women. I connect with women a lot easier because I am quite a deeper empathetic thinker. I am yet to EVER meet a woman who looks at herself in the mirror and says 'if I want my reality to change, then I need to change'. They usually blame the men, have REALLY HIGH UNREALISTIC expectations. I have some UGLY friends (3s and 4s, let's say) that want a guy who is a minimum 8 or 9! It kind of makes sense because women these days are masculinised and they want a 'pretty boy' as a prize for having their own money, their own careers, and being independent women. But it doesn't work like that ... men will never choose a financial/career stable woman OVER a woman with looks. Looks trumps every other dimension of another woman (that is not to say we ALSO don't want an emotionally stable, intelligent woman - of course we also want an attractive girl to be emotionally stable; other we will just pump and dump).
So this leads to women not accepting reality and being bitter about the dating market.. waiting for that 10/10 to come, and as a result be bit*** to men that don't meet the 10/10 criteria. Because the women are so worth it ..
AureliusMaximus
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Their female operating system's decision making runs on "feelings" and that makes them unstable by default. Managing your life out from what you feel "right now" is without the guidance of a leader a guaranteed path to issues down the road.
Add feminism to that and you have a certified train wreck.
