As a divorced guy, I see 2 noteworthy distinctions:
1. If she says she wants to be married and maybe describes the wedding, the ring, or simply having a family, then I would lean heavily on her status and validation taking priority.
2. If she says she wants to marry you, have your baby, be with you forever, that’s a little different. In that emotional moment, she can see herself happy with you for a long time. She’s going to call this “forever” but it is truly “I’ll love you until I don’t anymore”, when seeing this through a red pill lense.
That’s my take on this topic anyways. I’ve had several want to marry me and a few that wanted to be married. Both kinds are dangerous and the ones who don’t care to marry at all have been the most fun, but have high potential to entertain promiscuous behavior.
1. If she says she wants to be married and maybe describes the wedding, the ring, or simply having a family, then I would lean heavily on her status and validation taking priority.
2. If she says she wants to marry you, have your baby, be with you forever, that’s a little different. In that emotional moment, she can see herself happy with you for a long time. She’s going to call this “forever” but it is truly “I’ll love you until I don’t anymore”, when seeing this through a red pill lense.
That’s my take on this topic anyways. I’ve had several want to marry me and a few that wanted to be married. Both kinds are dangerous and the ones who don’t care to marry at all have been the most fun, but have high potential to entertain promiscuous behavior.