"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why are there sooooooo many more single men than women at bars/online dating/everywhere else?

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Maria and Ana don’t want old looking middle eastern dude .

You know I would prefer a middle eastern woman over anybody right?

but problem is finding one who is not Muslim. I'm not going to get involved with anybody from that horrible religion
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I live near Chicago, which supposedly has tons of single girls but this graph doesn't mean anything. All it counts are unmarried women - it counts the female who is seeing 3 different guys from her social circle and has zero interest in you hitting on her as being single, which she is not.
There's also more women than men in college, and more women than men in raw numbers in some places.

"Figure 11 is the ratio of the population of men to women and shows total male population measures about 6.0% smaller than total female population."
https://www.towncharts.com/Illinois/Demographics/Chicago-city-IL-Demographics-data.html#Figure11

So... 47% men 53% women in 2017 in chicago apparently.
 

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but problem is finding one who is not Muslim. I'm not going to get involved with anybody from that horrible religion
This is one area where we can all agree
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looks like a tranny to me, those harsh angled features are not a bit of me.
 

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What the heck is she wearing? Looks like she is in training to be a Jedi or something.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Looks like a tranny to me, those harsh angled features are not a bit of me.
You need to train your tranny spotting skill, it needs work fam.

What the heck is she wearing? Looks like she is in training to be a Jedi or something.
She will make another fine addition to my collection
 
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