"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why are there sooooooo many more single men than women at bars/online dating/everywhere else?

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Maria and Ana don’t want old looking middle eastern dude .

You know I would prefer a middle eastern woman over anybody right?

but problem is finding one who is not Muslim. I'm not going to get involved with anybody from that horrible religion
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I live near Chicago, which supposedly has tons of single girls but this graph doesn't mean anything. All it counts are unmarried women - it counts the female who is seeing 3 different guys from her social circle and has zero interest in you hitting on her as being single, which she is not.
There's also more women than men in college, and more women than men in raw numbers in some places.

"Figure 11 is the ratio of the population of men to women and shows total male population measures about 6.0% smaller than total female population."
https://www.towncharts.com/Illinois/Demographics/Chicago-city-IL-Demographics-data.html#Figure11

So... 47% men 53% women in 2017 in chicago apparently.
 

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but problem is finding one who is not Muslim. I'm not going to get involved with anybody from that horrible religion
This is one area where we can all agree
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Looks like a tranny to me, those harsh angled features are not a bit of me.
 

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What the heck is she wearing? Looks like she is in training to be a Jedi or something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Looks like a tranny to me, those harsh angled features are not a bit of me.
You need to train your tranny spotting skill, it needs work fam.

What the heck is she wearing? Looks like she is in training to be a Jedi or something.
She will make another fine addition to my collection
 
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