Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup: This could be a canned response for a ton of the crap in the forum... :crackup:comic_relief said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why are the following people banned?
- Thread starter The Realest Thing
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol if i was a mod I would ban more people who share similar traits. I don't have problems with RAFC because that is the point of this site. But "posers don juans" are the biggest problem and you can usually spot them a mile away.comic_relief said:
- First they come here as a newbie, telling everyone that they got game. This behaviour usually starts from day 1 or after a month or so. Most don't last more then 4 months anyway.
- Then they start a thread after thread offering generic advice like: "Its all about Looks" or "Myspace girls are easy". In which they brag they slept with over 34 women since the age of 15. Again nothing is proven and nobody really cares what they have to say, the one thing that members do care is the quality of advice which is often lacking, too generic or already disscussed to death and is recycled. It takes quite some time to achieve credability on this site (again it matters to some but not all) but you can tell those guys are striving to be at the top and to be shrined in some kind of HALL OF FAME LIST.
- Then they get very defensive when they are being debated about their game and keep calling all the members AFC's while trying to prove how masculine and how much of a 'natural' game they have.
- Then in order to achieve credibility they hang on to some famous forum member nuts. Following them around like a puppy and praise them constantly or berate them constantly.
- Finally being frustrated that their advice is not taken seriously they lash out against everyone, calling out everyone, trying to bait and flame and they end up getting banned.
- Then feeling like a martyr they end the day by viewing a Jenna Jamieson porno flick and wacking themselves off to sleep. Waking up to the real world the next day where their tough don juan adonis persona magically disappears.
THE END.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I've always said that these guys were predictable. Nice to know that I'm not the only one who recognized this.DJDamage said:
Gotta love how every otherday, the board cycles between...
BAN this guy, he's a troll (usually started by some noob)
WHY are these guys banned (usually started by some noob)
YOU GUYS ARE ALL PVSSY'S (usually started by some noob)
Just kick back, and juice this site for what its worth.
Theres PLENTY of value to still be gleamed.
Plenty of heads that still got a dime of game to drop.
... and plenty of great discussions that go unsaid, cause of worthless bickering threads.
It is what it is... see it as such, and capitalize. (or move on)
Peace'
BAN this guy, he's a troll (usually started by some noob)
WHY are these guys banned (usually started by some noob)
YOU GUYS ARE ALL PVSSY'S (usually started by some noob)
Just kick back, and juice this site for what its worth.
Theres PLENTY of value to still be gleamed.
Plenty of heads that still got a dime of game to drop.
... and plenty of great discussions that go unsaid, cause of worthless bickering threads.
It is what it is... see it as such, and capitalize. (or move on)
Peace'
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
I was a lurker when Player Surpreme and PRLover were around. I gotta say they were tough but what they've said has more merit than whats given in here now adays. The archives have the most interesting discussions even I still go there.Francisco d'Anconia said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
diplomatic_lies
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No they didn't. Player Supreme basically said a bunch of ghetto slang which nobody understood, and PRLover basically said "all women are hos!!!!" over and over.BlackJackal said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I wasn't crazy about their presentation and some of their ideas were a bit extreme but they definitely gave you something to think about. I don't believe they were on the site for their own self promotion, Player has his own site for that now and I give him props for that.BlackJackal said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
This is true but every once in a while there would be a nugget of gold in what they said. At least they were amusing on occasion.diplomatic_lies said:
Too many people on this forum think you gotta write like a nobel prize writer to be any good at macking...its the opposite, usually the guys who come here screaming they may suck at writing but they are getting laid probably...when I see the ****ing essay writers writing their bull**** theories I know they are going home wacking off.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Why is this thread even here? For all we know these people could have made new screen names and cleaned up their acts on the site.
As to why they were banned, the last few post with the majority of the people who were banned is typically a downward spirial. After violating the rules and being warned by the mods, haveing their post deleted and their threads closed, they all go nuts. I know we all want to say exactly what's on our minds at any given point but unfortunatly we cannot. The site is owned by someone and that someone makes the rules to which we all must abide. Regardless of what good advice we think some one puts out here, if they violate the rules repeatedly they're going to get banned.
As to why they were banned, the last few post with the majority of the people who were banned is typically a downward spirial. After violating the rules and being warned by the mods, haveing their post deleted and their threads closed, they all go nuts. I know we all want to say exactly what's on our minds at any given point but unfortunatly we cannot. The site is owned by someone and that someone makes the rules to which we all must abide. Regardless of what good advice we think some one puts out here, if they violate the rules repeatedly they're going to get banned.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Chosen1 said:
haha
yeah really
cuz its so alpha to fight behind your keyboard :cuss:
Bulls*it! YOU ****ing %$&! (%*)realsmoothie said:
No seriously, I'm starting to believe (with the more I see, and read) that a man isn't really polite. And well sh*t, sometimes... I really like putting a ***** in her place. Whatever man, be yourself.
diplomatic_lies
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In that case you can go fvck yourself!MuayThai said:
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They banned PR_L for less than your foul speech!!! He was against the homo/hor agenda and thus banned!!!diplomatic_lies said:
PuertoRican_Lover said all hors are hors!!! NOT all women are hors!! Get it straight, kid!!!!! Enough with the propaganda! of the homo/hor agenda!!!!!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I didn't say men where impolite! Screw you *****.diplomatic_lies said:
Don't put words in my mouth **** head.
I'm a ****ing man, and I don't feel like going around being massively polite to everyone, just because.
I show a general level of respect and courtesy but otherwise, why do you need to act polite?
~attrACTION~
Banned
I find it funny that the guy who made this thread is now banned. I guess he never figured out why people get banned before it was too late. I'd bet making threads like this one sure don't help. LOL.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Makes me wonder whether these guys use the communication skills that they exhibit here when they speak with people directly.~attrACTION~ said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.