"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Player_Supreme


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40939
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=52882


Donjuanforever


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=108677
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=107838


Don Ronny


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=56161
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=55640


Skip2mylou781


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104287
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=106349


AngelusPUA





those are ones who's very very good threads I have read. Their advice was very meaningful and eye opening. Why in the world were any (and all) of them banned?? This is a forum to help guys get chicks and get laid. Now I see it slightly in ruins with alot of loser/wimp talk. hell, I even see some of these guys still get mentioned here like they were famous. Why ban the posters who tried there best to give really solid advice?

I am sure there are more that were banned that I just haven't seen yet.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zero Hero

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Because everything has to be nice and civil so the AFCs can take over.
 

KneghtRyder

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Player_Supreme was a good contributor to this forum.. I hope they decide to let him back.
 

DJDamage

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This has been dissussed to death from other threads. You are all Newbies and don't know the history behind this so do a little search first.

The rules apply to all, it doesn't matter if you give a good advice. if a mod's constantly warn you about breaking the rules and you decide to ignore them, you get banned. No one is untouchable.
 

Maximus Rex

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I agree. There's a serious lack of discussion of stratgery and sucess on this site. It's mainly rAFC's asking questions that are answered in the DJ Bible and AFC's asking questions about pertaining to there one-itis.

I have to say it must've of been a very ergregious offense. This is a very liberal and tolerant site. So they must've really pissed somebody off.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rrrrr

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AngelsPUA was basically a fantasy fiction writer, there's no room for that here.
 

everywomanshero

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I don't recognize any of those names except Player Supreme whose name I know because he was on the ASF's top KJs & trolls list, I actually think he might have been #1 for a while.

This site attracts a lot of cool guys but......
Unfortunately, due to the nature of this site it is envitable that it will attract all kinds of weirdos... desperate, horny, and frustrated men who get online and some bash women, some bash other guys, and most do these things to try to raise their self-esteem., to feel better than someone else to compensate for a lack of social skills and perceived mistreatment/ignoring by the world at large. They are easy to spot through the use of hate speech like "all women are *****s" .. name calling... etc.

Some say all normal guys are AFCs who don't get laid. These got went online and read something and now they are superior to all those good looking attorneys... surely, none of those guys get laid right? All of us are here because of artificial insemination, right? Wilt Chamberlyn, ha, probably a virgin, right? Thise pathetic AFCS indeed!!!!! Only the master DJs and PUAs get laid because we know the 'secrets'.

Then you start to hear these guys on radio shows putting down other guys, yet they have time to do podcasts and be the dude who calls into radio shows on Saturday nights??? SOmething is wrong here! Then I hear one get asked what he would say to a woman who snubs him, and predictably, he recites a David D line verbatim.

The reason for all this? too much talk, not enough action.

I don't know these specific people, maybe they are great, I don't know, so I won't comment on them specifically.
 

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I don't know why most of them got banned. That was way before my time. A couple of them, though, got banned for being @$$holes to other posters. Flaming post for no reason, and getting into off topic conversations that turned into an online version of jerry springer (I watched one episode, my god people are idiots).

Anyway, there are some things that they posted that made sense, but rarely in a coherent manner, and always with too much bull$hit and attitude.

Some of these folks do still post on this forum, they just do it under a different name . . .

The basic rule of life is, if you don't make the rules, don't break em. These folks did, and then they got banned. I might add after multiple warnings.


-E.Nigma

P.S. - They just never learned to play nice . . .:nono:
 
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isn't the whole idea of trying to watch what you say and playing nice without having much attitude in itself AFC'ish? Men say and do and act however the hell they want, and from reading threads by those guys (especially player supreme), it certainly seemed that he just offended too many helpless losers by sounding like too much of a man!
 

SamePendo

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My sig is self-explanatory I believe. I suppose he asked mods to be banned as others in the past.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Realest Thing said:
... it certainly seemed that they just offended too many helpless losers by sounding like too much of a man!
BINGO!!!!!!!!!!! This is why most were banned and some were not given warning!!!! Now you have too many wimpy young men on this site and too few strong men who tell it like it is!!!! Most mods who banned others are young dudes who have been infected with the feminist/homo brainwashing of the last 40 years and go against the strong male thinking - i.e. Player Supreme and PuertoRican_Lover (PR_L)!!!

DJ everywomanshero - get your sh@t straight - not all women are hors - all hors are hors!!!!!!! GOT IT???
 

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There's a difference between being a "man" and being an "*sshole".

You can be a man and be polite. A few posters on this site seem to think that being a man MEANS being disrespectful and angry all the time.

Settle down, Beavis. Grow up. It's a "discussion" board, not an "insult everyone who disagrees with you" board.
 

MisterNigma

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realsmoothie said:
There's a difference between being a "man" and being an "*sshole".

You can be a man and be polite. A few posters on this site seem to think that being a man MEANS being disrespectful and angry all the time.

Settle down, Beavis. Grow up. It's a "discussion" board, not an "insult everyone who disagrees with you" board.
^^^
Agreed.


-E.Nigma
 

Jariel

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everywomanshero said:
I don't recognize any of those names except Player Supreme whose name I know because he was on the ASF's top KJs & trolls list, I actually think he might have been #1 for a while.

This site attracts a lot of cool guys but......
Unfortunately, due to the nature of this site it is envitable that it will attract all kinds of weirdos... desperate, horny, and frustrated men who get online and some bash women, some bash other guys, and most do these things to try to raise their self-esteem., to feel better than someone else to compensate for a lack of social skills and perceived mistreatment/ignoring by the world at large. They are easy to spot through the use of hate speech like "all women are *****s" .. name calling... etc.

Some say all normal guys are AFCs who don't get laid. These got went online and read something and now they are superior to all those good looking attorneys... surely, none of those guys get laid right? All of us are here because of artificial insemination, right? Wilt Chamberlyn, ha, probably a virgin, right? Thise pathetic AFCS indeed!!!!! Only the master DJs and PUAs get laid because we know the 'secrets'.

Then you start to hear these guys on radio shows putting down other guys, yet they have time to do podcasts and be the dude who calls into radio shows on Saturday nights??? SOmething is wrong here! Then I hear one get asked what he would say to a woman who snubs him, and predictably, he recites a David D line verbatim.

The reason for all this? too much talk, not enough action.

I don't know these specific people, maybe they are great, I don't know, so I won't comment on them specifically.
Spot on.

There are a lot of guys (the OP's list being examples) who spout a lot of textbook theory, make up fantasies, in the hopes of building a cyber ego. When people are more concerned about their cyber ego than learning and developing, you know they're the worst losers on the site.
 

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DJDamage said:
This has been dissussed to death from other threads. You are all Newbies and don't know the history behind this so do a little search first. ..
It does make me wonder why guys who have only been in the forum for a couple of months are asking about guys who haven't been on in a year.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jariel

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As a rule, anyone who tries to promote a cyber ego should be treated with suspicion.

Like in life, the guy who brags the most usually has the least to brag about.

It's a typical sign of validation-seeking that's characteristic of low status people.
 

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The Realest Thing said:
Player_Supreme

Don Ronny

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Player_Supreme was banned for flaming and fighting online.
Don Ronny was banned because of breaking the rules.
Skip2mylou... ARE YOU FVCKING KIDDING ME?!?

comic_relief
 

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realsmoothie said:
There's a difference between being a "man" and being an "*sshole".

You can be a man and be polite. A few posters on this site seem to think that being a man MEANS being disrespectful and angry all the time.

Settle down, Beavis. Grow up. It's a "discussion" board, not an "insult everyone who disagrees with you" board.
Couldn't agree more. Spot on.
 

Ripper

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realsmoothie said:
There's a difference between being a "man" and being an "*sshole".

You can be a man and be polite. A few posters on this site seem to think that being a man MEANS being disrespectful and angry all the time.

Settle down, Beavis. Grow up. It's a "discussion" board, not an "insult everyone who disagrees with you" board.
Perfectly put.:up:
 

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I do think some guys take being alpha to the extreme. As for stratergy I'm up to my ears in how to approach the advance stuff I really don't pay attention to. I do think skip had some good stuff. But we heard it all before.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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