Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup: This could be a canned response for a ton of the crap in the forum... :crackup:comic_relief said:...
Skip2mylou... ARE YOU FVCKING KIDDING ME?!?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
:crackup: This could be a canned response for a ton of the crap in the forum... :crackup:comic_relief said:...
Skip2mylou... ARE YOU FVCKING KIDDING ME?!?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lol if i was a mod I would ban more people who share similar traits. I don't have problems with RAFC because that is the point of this site. But "posers don juans" are the biggest problem and you can usually spot them a mile away.comic_relief said:Skip2mylou... ARE YOU FVCKING KIDDING ME?!?
I've always said that these guys were predictable. Nice to know that I'm not the only one who recognized this.DJDamage said:lol if i was a mod I would ban more people who share similar traits. I don't have problems with RAFC because that is the point of this site. But "posers don juans" are the biggest problem and you can usually spot them a mile away.
- First they come here as a newbie, telling everyone that they got game. This behaviour usually starts from day 1 or after a month or so. Most don't last more then 4 months anyway.
- Then they start a thread after thread offering generic advice like: "Its all about Looks" or "Myspace girls are easy". In which they brag they slept with over 34 women since the age of 15. Again nothing is proven and nobody really cares what they have to say, the one thing that members do care is the quality of advice which is often lacking, too generic or already disscussed to death and is recycled. It takes quite some time to achieve credability on this site (again it matters to some but not all) but you can tell those guys are striving to be at the top and to be shrined in some kind of HALL OF FAME LIST.
- Then they get very defensive when they are being debated about their game and keep calling all the members AFC's while trying to prove how masculine and how much of a 'natural' game they have.
- Then in order to achieve credibility they hang on to some famous forum member nuts. Following them around like a puppy and praise them constantly or berate them constantly.
- Finally being frustrated that their advice is not taken seriously they lash out against everyone, calling out everyone, trying to bait and flame and they end up getting banned.
- Then feeling like a martyr they end the day by viewing a Jenna Jamieson porno flick and wacking themselves off to sleep. Waking up to the real world the next day where their tough don juan adonis persona magically disappears.
THE END.
I was a lurker when Player Surpreme and PRLover were around. I gotta say they were tough but what they've said has more merit than whats given in here now adays. The archives have the most interesting discussions even I still go there.Francisco d'Anconia said:It does make me wonder why guys who have only been in the forum for a couple of months are asking about guys who haven't been on in a year.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No they didn't. Player Supreme basically said a bunch of ghetto slang which nobody understood, and PRLover basically said "all women are hos!!!!" over and over.BlackJackal said:I was a lurker when Player Surpreme and PRLover were around. I gotta say they were tough but what they've said has more merit than whats given in here now adays.
I wasn't crazy about their presentation and some of their ideas were a bit extreme but they definitely gave you something to think about. I don't believe they were on the site for their own self promotion, Player has his own site for that now and I give him props for that.BlackJackal said:I was a lurker when Player Surpreme and PRLover were around. I gotta say they were tough but what they've said has more merit than whats given in here now adays. The archives have the most interesting discussions even I still go there.
This is true but every once in a while there would be a nugget of gold in what they said. At least they were amusing on occasion.diplomatic_lies said:No they didn't. Player Supreme basically said a bunch of ghetto slang which nobody understood, and PRLover basically said "all women are hos!!!!" over and over.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Chosen1 said:I do think some guys take being alpha to the extreme. As for stratergy I'm up to my ears in how to approach the advance stuff I really don't pay attention to. I do think skip had some good stuff. But we heard it all before.
You don't stop playing your fiddle just because you can get someone else to do it. Sometimes it's just better when you're alone.Zero Hero said:when I see the ****ing essay writers writing their bull**** theories I know they are going home wacking off.
Bulls*it! YOU ****ing %$&! (%*)realsmoothie said:There's a difference between being a "man" and being an "*sshole".
You can be a man and be polite. A few posters on this site seem to think that being a man MEANS being disrespectful and angry all the time.
Settle down, Beavis. Grow up. It's a "discussion" board, not an "insult everyone who disagrees with you" board.
In that case you can go fvck yourself!MuayThai said:No seriously, I'm starting to believe (with the more I see, and read) that a man isn't really polite.
They banned PR_L for less than your foul speech!!! He was against the homo/hor agenda and thus banned!!!diplomatic_lies said:In that case you can go fvck yourself!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DJDamage said:lol if i was a mod I would ban more people who share similar traits. I don't have problems with RAFC because that is the point of this site. But "posers don juans" are the biggest problem and you can usually spot them a mile away.
- First they come here as a newbie, telling everyone that they got game. This behaviour usually starts from day 1 or after a month or so. Most don't last more then 4 months anyway.
- Then they start a thread after thread offering generic advice like: "Its all about Looks" or "Myspace girls are easy". In which they brag they slept with over 34 women since the age of 15. Again nothing is proven and nobody really cares what they have to say, the one thing that members do care is the quality of advice which is often lacking, too generic or already disscussed to death and is recycled. It takes quite some time to achieve credability on this site (again it matters to some but not all) but you can tell those guys are striving to be at the top and to be shrined in some kind of HALL OF FAME LIST.
- Then they get very defensive when they are being debated about their game and keep calling all the members AFC's while trying to prove how masculine and how much of a 'natural' game they have.
- Then in order to achieve credibility they hang on to some famous forum member nuts. Following them around like a puppy and praise them constantly or berate them constantly.
- Finally being frustrated that their advice is not taken seriously they lash out against everyone, calling out everyone, trying to bait and flame and they end up getting banned.
- Then feeling like a martyr they end the day by viewing a Jenna Jamieson porno flick and wacking themselves off to sleep. Waking up to the real world the next day where their tough don juan adonis persona magically disappears.
THE END.
I didn't say men where impolite! Screw you *****.diplomatic_lies said:In that case you can go fvck yourself!
Makes me wonder whether these guys use the communication skills that they exhibit here when they speak with people directly.~attrACTION~ said:I find it funny that the guy who made this thread is now banned. I guess he never figured out why people get banned before it was too late. I'd bet making threads like this one sure don't help. LOL.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.