"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why are tattoos a red flag?

The Duke

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I think multiple/excessive tats are a red flag because they are used to fill an emotional connection that they can't get from a human. They are seeking some meaning thru art work. I've never met a tatted up person that didn't have mental/drug issues.

I would never date a girl that had a bunch of distracting tattoo's. It tarnishes a beautiful body.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pierce Manhammer

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You guys and your absolutes, it utterly cracks me up. The only way you’re going to get your perfect chick is to move to a fundamentalist Muslim country.
 

bcude

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But tattoos do indicate she made a decision (design, location, etc.) without much concern of how it might impact her future.
To me it shows they are too impulsive, don’t think about how the decision they make today will effect them years down the road, also shows financial irresponsibility because tattoos are expensive and most women I know that have them are always complaining about being broke.
If we switch the words "tattoos" with "children" in the above two statements, we could be having a conversation about single mothers... and.. well.. we tend to avoid them like the plague, so one can argue that you should put tatted women in the same category! (and run)
 

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“Equivalent of a bumper sticker on a Ferrari.”

Picture what they will look like 10 years from now, and beyond.
 
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