"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why are tattoos a red flag?

The Duke

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I think multiple/excessive tats are a red flag because they are used to fill an emotional connection that they can't get from a human. They are seeking some meaning thru art work. I've never met a tatted up person that didn't have mental/drug issues.

I would never date a girl that had a bunch of distracting tattoo's. It tarnishes a beautiful body.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You guys and your absolutes, it utterly cracks me up. The only way you’re going to get your perfect chick is to move to a fundamentalist Muslim country.
 

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But tattoos do indicate she made a decision (design, location, etc.) without much concern of how it might impact her future.
To me it shows they are too impulsive, don’t think about how the decision they make today will effect them years down the road, also shows financial irresponsibility because tattoos are expensive and most women I know that have them are always complaining about being broke.
If we switch the words "tattoos" with "children" in the above two statements, we could be having a conversation about single mothers... and.. well.. we tend to avoid them like the plague, so one can argue that you should put tatted women in the same category! (and run)
 

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“Equivalent of a bumper sticker on a Ferrari.”

Picture what they will look like 10 years from now, and beyond.
 
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