Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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why are some chicks easy to get there number?

sakitt

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why are some chicks easy to get there number? All you say hi and hello and what do you like to for fun? And most of the time they give out there number?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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spider_007

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they can see who is calling, and choose if they want to answer or not.

let me guess, your from some third world country where they don't have that stuff:confused:
 

SparkleMotion

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There are too many variables to tell you exactly why.

Could be that they just moved to town and don't know anyone. The best example of this is College Freshman girls during the first couple of weeks of school.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Qmanchoo

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1. They instatly realize it's what you're after and they...
A. Are lonely and wouldn't mind a date or two
B. Are instantly interested and/or excited by you approaching them
C. Need an ego boost
D. Are sluts and want some d!ckin
E. She isn't feeling attractive and givign her number out makers her feel sexy
F. She just broke up with her boyfriend and is looking for someone to lean on

G. Life creates a million reasons, those are some main one but there are a million more....

The real question is why do you care? You got it. Use it.
 

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They may have an occupation that involves their number being out there anyway, so one more person knowing is nothing, and may even be good for business.

They may be attention wh0res and just love guys calling/texting them to feel valuable.

Think about it, it's just your phone, the whole world can know it for all it really matters.
 

avrilishot

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either they just want another friend or there not used to guys coming up to them and asking for a number. or they want dik.:)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sakitt

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There are chicks out there that want some you know.:p
 

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Or maybe:
H. They have been asked for their number many other times, and so hands over a fake so you'll go away.....
 
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