"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why are some chicks easy to get there number?

sakitt

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why are some chicks easy to get there number? All you say hi and hello and what do you like to for fun? And most of the time they give out there number?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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spider_007

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they can see who is calling, and choose if they want to answer or not.

let me guess, your from some third world country where they don't have that stuff:confused:
 

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There are too many variables to tell you exactly why.

Could be that they just moved to town and don't know anyone. The best example of this is College Freshman girls during the first couple of weeks of school.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Qmanchoo

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1. They instatly realize it's what you're after and they...
A. Are lonely and wouldn't mind a date or two
B. Are instantly interested and/or excited by you approaching them
C. Need an ego boost
D. Are sluts and want some d!ckin
E. She isn't feeling attractive and givign her number out makers her feel sexy
F. She just broke up with her boyfriend and is looking for someone to lean on

G. Life creates a million reasons, those are some main one but there are a million more....

The real question is why do you care? You got it. Use it.
 

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They may have an occupation that involves their number being out there anyway, so one more person knowing is nothing, and may even be good for business.

They may be attention wh0res and just love guys calling/texting them to feel valuable.

Think about it, it's just your phone, the whole world can know it for all it really matters.
 

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either they just want another friend or there not used to guys coming up to them and asking for a number. or they want dik.:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There are chicks out there that want some you know.:p
 

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Or maybe:
H. They have been asked for their number many other times, and so hands over a fake so you'll go away.....
 
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