"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
why are some chicks easy to get there number?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
spider_007
Master Don Juan
let me guess, your from some third world country where they don't have that stuff
SparkleMotion
Don Juan
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Could be that they just moved to town and don't know anyone. The best example of this is College Freshman girls during the first couple of weeks of school.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
A. Are lonely and wouldn't mind a date or two
B. Are instantly interested and/or excited by you approaching them
C. Need an ego boost
D. Are sluts and want some d!ckin
E. She isn't feeling attractive and givign her number out makers her feel sexy
F. She just broke up with her boyfriend and is looking for someone to lean on
G. Life creates a million reasons, those are some main one but there are a million more....
The real question is why do you care? You got it. Use it.
They may be attention wh0res and just love guys calling/texting them to feel valuable.
Think about it, it's just your phone, the whole world can know it for all it really matters.
avrilishot
Senior Don Juan
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:Originally posted by spider_007
they have coller ID
:crackup: :crackup:LongDrinkofWater
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H. They have been asked for their number many other times, and so hands over a fake so you'll go away.....