"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why are so many men here women-haters?

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PeasantPlayer said:
Growing up I think most of us had a vision made for us by Movies, TV. That women were angelic almost perfect princesses who needed to be worshipped and catered to win over. They portrayed them as never cheating once you got their "love". But then reality kicked in and I realized women wanted sex just as much as men, maybe more. Were not perfect or angelic at all and if you gave them everything they wanted they would walk all over you and eventually leave you. They are very manipulative and love to play mind games. Those are a few of the flaws generally speaking of course
Both men and women are flawed. We're only human after all.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
BAN THIS B!TCH ALREADY.
Instead of complaining and creating more hatred, why not try to solve the problem?
I think you've established that constructive solutions / problem solving aren't welcome on this forum.

It's interesting becuse most guys here seem to see m/ relationship as a prisoner's dilemma and go on to opt for a suboptimal outcome rather than cooperate.
 

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PeasantPlayer said:
Growing up I think most of us had a vision made for us by Movies, TV. That women were angelic almost perfect princesses who needed to be worshipped and catered to win over. They portrayed them as never cheating once you got their "love". But then reality kicked in and I realized women wanted sex just as much as men, maybe more. Were not perfect or angelic at all and if you gave them everything they wanted they would walk all over you and eventually leave you. They are very manipulative and love to play mind games. Those are a few of the flaws generally speaking of course
Don't I know it. I learned the hard way through tough experience that culture is not my friend. The media stereotypes and wears them into the ground, laughing at you or talking down to you because of your weight, your hair (or lack of it), your disfigurement, your disability, even the slightest suggestion of your sexuality, if you are living on welfare.....All designed to distract. Gits they are. So many oblivious to misandry and double standards by protecting the women regardless of what they did. Pathetic to hit a woman? How about a gaggle of girls laying into a grown ass man, that's pathetic too.

Don't get me wrong, I really don't want to be negative.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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princess_124 said:
why don't you actually go to your wife and nicely (or meaning, depending on her personality) explain what you don't like about her.
Haha. But nicely explaining doesnt work. Walking away and ignoring works.
 

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Don't hate women, just enhance their lives by sexing them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Poon King said:
I have a better question OP. Why should men love women?

And I'm not talking about that rare "amazing" woman.. I'm talking about your average woman.
Because most of us are nice....only western women are mean.
 

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JohnChops said:
change your name to CUMDumpster pls
I think she should change her name to this, her business logo:
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PeasantPlayer said:
Growing up I think most of us had a vision made for us by Movies, TV. That women were angelic almost perfect princesses who needed to be worshipped and catered to win over. They portrayed them as never cheating once you got their "love". But then reality kicked in and I realized women wanted sex just as much as men, maybe more. Were not perfect or angelic at all and if you gave them everything they wanted they would walk all over you and eventually leave you. They are very manipulative and love to play mind games. Those are a few of the flaws generally speaking of course
Oh come on, I think you are generalizing. Yes, there are women that are bad, but there are some...in fact, many good ones that exist! Just stop going to bars and go to family oriented places. I promise you that you will find "nice girls".
princess_124 said:
Yeah? If you're so "nice" then why are you so worried about a man's house and car?
Answer me one question please...would you marry a girl who has no car or house?
 

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She does have a point though.. Some of you guys r a little bitter. I think the majority of you guys r ugly, bad dressers, really awkward or give a creepy vibe.. I've always got girls since like 15 and it ain't really been hard.


I've been cheated on.. I've cheated, it's life. And maybe some of you haven't had a hard enough life.
I feel like the U. S and western countries lack a rite
of passage for men and you grow up acting like women.

They sense the B--ch in you and treat you accordingly. No one likes a soft ass man.
 

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cola said:
She does have a point though.. Some of you guys r a little bitter. I think the majority of you guys r ugly, bad dressers, really awkward or give a creepy vibe.. I've always got girls since like 15 and it ain't really been hard.


I've been cheated on.. I've cheated, it's life. And maybe some of you haven't had a hard enough life.
I feel like the U. S and western countries lack a rite
of passage for men and you grow up acting like women.

They sense the B--ch in you and treat you accordingly. No one likes a soft ass man.
thank God we have a normal guy on here! You guys should look up to him(even 35-40 year old users)...most of the guys use women for sex... They also refer to women as b1tches or c'nts
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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