"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why are so many men here women-haters?

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PeasantPlayer said:
Growing up I think most of us had a vision made for us by Movies, TV. That women were angelic almost perfect princesses who needed to be worshipped and catered to win over. They portrayed them as never cheating once you got their "love". But then reality kicked in and I realized women wanted sex just as much as men, maybe more. Were not perfect or angelic at all and if you gave them everything they wanted they would walk all over you and eventually leave you. They are very manipulative and love to play mind games. Those are a few of the flaws generally speaking of course
Both men and women are flawed. We're only human after all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
BAN THIS B!TCH ALREADY.
Instead of complaining and creating more hatred, why not try to solve the problem?
I think you've established that constructive solutions / problem solving aren't welcome on this forum.

It's interesting becuse most guys here seem to see m/ relationship as a prisoner's dilemma and go on to opt for a suboptimal outcome rather than cooperate.
 

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PeasantPlayer said:
Growing up I think most of us had a vision made for us by Movies, TV. That women were angelic almost perfect princesses who needed to be worshipped and catered to win over. They portrayed them as never cheating once you got their "love". But then reality kicked in and I realized women wanted sex just as much as men, maybe more. Were not perfect or angelic at all and if you gave them everything they wanted they would walk all over you and eventually leave you. They are very manipulative and love to play mind games. Those are a few of the flaws generally speaking of course
Don't I know it. I learned the hard way through tough experience that culture is not my friend. The media stereotypes and wears them into the ground, laughing at you or talking down to you because of your weight, your hair (or lack of it), your disfigurement, your disability, even the slightest suggestion of your sexuality, if you are living on welfare.....All designed to distract. Gits they are. So many oblivious to misandry and double standards by protecting the women regardless of what they did. Pathetic to hit a woman? How about a gaggle of girls laying into a grown ass man, that's pathetic too.

Don't get me wrong, I really don't want to be negative.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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princess_124 said:
why don't you actually go to your wife and nicely (or meaning, depending on her personality) explain what you don't like about her.
Haha. But nicely explaining doesnt work. Walking away and ignoring works.
 

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Don't hate women, just enhance their lives by sexing them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Poon King said:
I have a better question OP. Why should men love women?

And I'm not talking about that rare "amazing" woman.. I'm talking about your average woman.
Because most of us are nice....only western women are mean.
 

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JohnChops said:
change your name to CUMDumpster pls
I think she should change her name to this, her business logo:
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PeasantPlayer said:
Growing up I think most of us had a vision made for us by Movies, TV. That women were angelic almost perfect princesses who needed to be worshipped and catered to win over. They portrayed them as never cheating once you got their "love". But then reality kicked in and I realized women wanted sex just as much as men, maybe more. Were not perfect or angelic at all and if you gave them everything they wanted they would walk all over you and eventually leave you. They are very manipulative and love to play mind games. Those are a few of the flaws generally speaking of course
Oh come on, I think you are generalizing. Yes, there are women that are bad, but there are some...in fact, many good ones that exist! Just stop going to bars and go to family oriented places. I promise you that you will find "nice girls".
princess_124 said:
Yeah? If you're so "nice" then why are you so worried about a man's house and car?
Answer me one question please...would you marry a girl who has no car or house?
 

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She does have a point though.. Some of you guys r a little bitter. I think the majority of you guys r ugly, bad dressers, really awkward or give a creepy vibe.. I've always got girls since like 15 and it ain't really been hard.


I've been cheated on.. I've cheated, it's life. And maybe some of you haven't had a hard enough life.
I feel like the U. S and western countries lack a rite
of passage for men and you grow up acting like women.

They sense the B--ch in you and treat you accordingly. No one likes a soft ass man.
 

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cola said:
She does have a point though.. Some of you guys r a little bitter. I think the majority of you guys r ugly, bad dressers, really awkward or give a creepy vibe.. I've always got girls since like 15 and it ain't really been hard.


I've been cheated on.. I've cheated, it's life. And maybe some of you haven't had a hard enough life.
I feel like the U. S and western countries lack a rite
of passage for men and you grow up acting like women.

They sense the B--ch in you and treat you accordingly. No one likes a soft ass man.
thank God we have a normal guy on here! You guys should look up to him(even 35-40 year old users)...most of the guys use women for sex... They also refer to women as b1tches or c'nts
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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