You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Exactly what I was thinking.You mean black pill
Explain please.You mean black pill
Black pill is when you get stuck in the anger phase of the red pill and let it corrupt you so you fall into darknessExplain please.
If you're going to change the topic it better be for good reason.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Black pill is that part of red pill which you cant change nor influence, its inevitable, thats why its black, like deathBlack pill is when you get stuck in the anger phase of the red pill and let it corrupt you so you fall into darkness
LOL.Black pill is when you get stuck in the anger phase of the red pill and let it corrupt you so you fall into darkness
The reason is because most of what you post is straight up bullsh!t.Explain please.
If you're going to change the topic it better be for good reason.
Hmm, interesting...I'm not angry at all about the red pill.
The anger and upset violently gushes out of Urbanyst's butthole. Much butthurt indeed.
Prove it.The reason is because most of what you post is straight up bullsh!t.
If you were worth a dime you'd have a job in a cow's ass
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LOL.Hmm, interesting...
The anger and upset violently gushes out of Urbanyst's butthole. Much butthurt indeed.
Textbook-definition of projection right here.LOL.
You're making an ass of yourself. Anyone who looks at your posting history will see how angry, petty and ignorant you are.
Flaming people non-stop while offering jack sh*t to this forum.
You're a troll.
Lmao and here we have it folks, Urbanyst has lost. You can easily see considering his blatant and unprovoked insults. Now the androgynous humanoid creature will continue to flame using words s/he does not understand. Very exquisite.Stick your blue pill self-help sh*t up your fat ass.
Pretty much everything you say is disputed by the majority of people on this boardProve it.
Nothing I say can be disputed. Nothing.
That's why people flame me instead of arguing my claims.
P!ss off troll.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Wow...Nothing I say can be disputed. Nothing.
Purely an ego statement. Dude even talked about how he had none too. Funnily enough, he didn’t even know what that was or what phrases like ‘coping/defensive mechanisms’ were until I said that he kept using them to protect his own. Then he probably ready some rinky dink internet article about psychology and thinks he knows everything about it. He probably doesn’t know what PubMed even is until having just read that name in this post right now. Laughable.Wow...
Also, how you make her feel in your presence. Which you allude to here:... but nothing happens unless the chick is attracted to you, and it is MOSTLY physical and to a lessor degree, but still important, about what she thinks your status or potential.
Acting masculine plays a large role in how you make her feel, but so do game tactics like c0cky+funny, amused mastery, assuming the sale, push/pull etc.What is called "game" isn't even a factor unless she finds you attractive. But anyway, all "game" is is just acting like a man. Acting like a man, doesn't even work with all women, only sane normal chicks that are heterosexual. Crazy chicks and chicks that are more masculine than feminine, or chicks that are after your money, are not going to be moved by your being manly. But you still act like a man because that is how you screen out the b!tches and those that just want to use you
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.