You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Exactly what I was thinking.You mean black pill
Explain please.You mean black pill
Black pill is when you get stuck in the anger phase of the red pill and let it corrupt you so you fall into darknessExplain please.
If you're going to change the topic it better be for good reason.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Black pill is that part of red pill which you cant change nor influence, its inevitable, thats why its black, like deathBlack pill is when you get stuck in the anger phase of the red pill and let it corrupt you so you fall into darkness
LOL.Black pill is when you get stuck in the anger phase of the red pill and let it corrupt you so you fall into darkness
The reason is because most of what you post is straight up bullsh!t.Explain please.
If you're going to change the topic it better be for good reason.
Hmm, interesting...I'm not angry at all about the red pill.
The anger and upset violently gushes out of Urbanyst's butthole. Much butthurt indeed.
Prove it.The reason is because most of what you post is straight up bullsh!t.
If you were worth a dime you'd have a job in a cow's ass
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LOL.Hmm, interesting...
The anger and upset violently gushes out of Urbanyst's butthole. Much butthurt indeed.
Textbook-definition of projection right here.LOL.
You're making an ass of yourself. Anyone who looks at your posting history will see how angry, petty and ignorant you are.
Flaming people non-stop while offering jack sh*t to this forum.
You're a troll.
Lmao and here we have it folks, Urbanyst has lost. You can easily see considering his blatant and unprovoked insults. Now the androgynous humanoid creature will continue to flame using words s/he does not understand. Very exquisite.Stick your blue pill self-help sh*t up your fat ass.
Pretty much everything you say is disputed by the majority of people on this boardProve it.
Nothing I say can be disputed. Nothing.
That's why people flame me instead of arguing my claims.
P!ss off troll.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Wow...Nothing I say can be disputed. Nothing.
Purely an ego statement. Dude even talked about how he had none too. Funnily enough, he didn’t even know what that was or what phrases like ‘coping/defensive mechanisms’ were until I said that he kept using them to protect his own. Then he probably ready some rinky dink internet article about psychology and thinks he knows everything about it. He probably doesn’t know what PubMed even is until having just read that name in this post right now. Laughable.Wow...
Also, how you make her feel in your presence. Which you allude to here:... but nothing happens unless the chick is attracted to you, and it is MOSTLY physical and to a lessor degree, but still important, about what she thinks your status or potential.
Acting masculine plays a large role in how you make her feel, but so do game tactics like c0cky+funny, amused mastery, assuming the sale, push/pull etc.What is called "game" isn't even a factor unless she finds you attractive. But anyway, all "game" is is just acting like a man. Acting like a man, doesn't even work with all women, only sane normal chicks that are heterosexual. Crazy chicks and chicks that are more masculine than feminine, or chicks that are after your money, are not going to be moved by your being manly. But you still act like a man because that is how you screen out the b!tches and those that just want to use you
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.