You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
can you tell me where this is happening so i can go there?Chris30 said:This isn't meant to be a racist post but I'm white and I've noticed that more and more attractive women of all nationalities are preferring Hispanic or black men over white men. White men seem to be a dying breed in this country. Any reason why this is? I can understand why they might prefer black men because of the myth that they are more well-endowed than men of other nationalities and women seem to prefer men to have tanned or darker skin but why Hispanic men? It seems that white men get many unwarranted negative labels attached to us when it comes to being good in bed etc.
I didn't say all white guys, I said 'largely.'Chris30 said:That seems like a pretty broad statement to generalize all white guys as ***** because I don't see myself that way. Care to elaborate?
I'm white (check my profile pic).joey2times said:Just another stereotype by some insecure black dude.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
can you tell me where this is happening so i can go there?
Apparently, jungle fever is pretty severe in Chicago and the Midwest.Chris30 said:I live just outside of Chicago, Illinois. The majority of attractive women here seem to prefer olive-complected or darker Italian, Hispanic or black guys.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yup, bingo! Seriously, most apologetic, guilt-tripped, feminist manginas are "educated" (programmed) Anglo & Asian men. And as we all know, no good deed goes unpunished with women... I mean, is it any surprise that this is taking place in an Anglo country...and not a Black, Latino or Mediterranean one?Don Juanabbe said:There are still plenty of white men who are not effeminate, but unfortunately, too many white men have been educated in left wing schools and universities. Asians have been equally pussified because after white men, they are the most likely to go onto post-secondary education where the true indoctrination takes place.
Sadly, many other ethnicities are deprived of higher education. Unfortunately, this is a fact. However, it may not be such a bad thing because I have noticed that Black men can think for themselves and are not ashamed of their masculinity.
White boys are increasingly being subjected to and indoctrinated into the feminist/homosexual mindset, that is why I guarantee the majority of the posters on this board are fed up white guys looking for answers.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Good on you my brother.wayword said:Yup, bingo! Seriously, most apologetic, guilt-tripped, feminist manginas are "educated" (programmed) Anglo & Asian men. And as we all know, no good deed goes unpunished with women... I mean, is it any surprise that this is taking place in an Anglo countryl...and not a Black, Latino or Mediterranean one?
Of course, your average Anglo guy pats himself on his "progressive" (regressive?) back everytime he hoists puzzy up on a pedestal...while lecturing other men on how they should do the same. Meanwhile, other men look at the disastrous folly he's created for himself and can only pray for that attitude not to infect their own cultures...
I can just see millions of American men beaming with pride when they elect Hillary as our next Pres...a power-hungry feminist who still repeats the same bogus mantras like how "women only make $.77 for every dollar a man does" here, etc etc.![]()
Correct. I have an Italian buddy who chases women to the point of masochism. He just doesn't take no for an answer.Chris30 said:I'm a white guy and I don't put pvssy on a pedestal though I'll agree that there are probably more chumpish, nerdy-looking white guys than men of other nationalities. But there are plenty of men of other nationalities that I've also seen worship average-looking women and treat them like queens which of course usually leads to them walking around like they are God's gift. If you browse the ads on craigslist, you'll see how even many fat women advertise like they are all that and deserve Prince Charming.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.