You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
can you tell me where this is happening so i can go there?Chris30 said:This isn't meant to be a racist post but I'm white and I've noticed that more and more attractive women of all nationalities are preferring Hispanic or black men over white men. White men seem to be a dying breed in this country. Any reason why this is? I can understand why they might prefer black men because of the myth that they are more well-endowed than men of other nationalities and women seem to prefer men to have tanned or darker skin but why Hispanic men? It seems that white men get many unwarranted negative labels attached to us when it comes to being good in bed etc.
I didn't say all white guys, I said 'largely.'Chris30 said:That seems like a pretty broad statement to generalize all white guys as ***** because I don't see myself that way. Care to elaborate?
I'm white (check my profile pic).joey2times said:Just another stereotype by some insecure black dude.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
can you tell me where this is happening so i can go there?
Apparently, jungle fever is pretty severe in Chicago and the Midwest.Chris30 said:I live just outside of Chicago, Illinois. The majority of attractive women here seem to prefer olive-complected or darker Italian, Hispanic or black guys.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yup, bingo! Seriously, most apologetic, guilt-tripped, feminist manginas are "educated" (programmed) Anglo & Asian men. And as we all know, no good deed goes unpunished with women... I mean, is it any surprise that this is taking place in an Anglo country...and not a Black, Latino or Mediterranean one?Don Juanabbe said:There are still plenty of white men who are not effeminate, but unfortunately, too many white men have been educated in left wing schools and universities. Asians have been equally pussified because after white men, they are the most likely to go onto post-secondary education where the true indoctrination takes place.
Sadly, many other ethnicities are deprived of higher education. Unfortunately, this is a fact. However, it may not be such a bad thing because I have noticed that Black men can think for themselves and are not ashamed of their masculinity.
White boys are increasingly being subjected to and indoctrinated into the feminist/homosexual mindset, that is why I guarantee the majority of the posters on this board are fed up white guys looking for answers.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Good on you my brother.wayword said:Yup, bingo! Seriously, most apologetic, guilt-tripped, feminist manginas are "educated" (programmed) Anglo & Asian men. And as we all know, no good deed goes unpunished with women... I mean, is it any surprise that this is taking place in an Anglo countryl...and not a Black, Latino or Mediterranean one?
Of course, your average Anglo guy pats himself on his "progressive" (regressive?) back everytime he hoists puzzy up on a pedestal...while lecturing other men on how they should do the same. Meanwhile, other men look at the disastrous folly he's created for himself and can only pray for that attitude not to infect their own cultures...
I can just see millions of American men beaming with pride when they elect Hillary as our next Pres...a power-hungry feminist who still repeats the same bogus mantras like how "women only make $.77 for every dollar a man does" here, etc etc.![]()
Correct. I have an Italian buddy who chases women to the point of masochism. He just doesn't take no for an answer.Chris30 said:I'm a white guy and I don't put pvssy on a pedestal though I'll agree that there are probably more chumpish, nerdy-looking white guys than men of other nationalities. But there are plenty of men of other nationalities that I've also seen worship average-looking women and treat them like queens which of course usually leads to them walking around like they are God's gift. If you browse the ads on craigslist, you'll see how even many fat women advertise like they are all that and deserve Prince Charming.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.