You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
can you tell me where this is happening so i can go there?Chris30 said:This isn't meant to be a racist post but I'm white and I've noticed that more and more attractive women of all nationalities are preferring Hispanic or black men over white men. White men seem to be a dying breed in this country. Any reason why this is? I can understand why they might prefer black men because of the myth that they are more well-endowed than men of other nationalities and women seem to prefer men to have tanned or darker skin but why Hispanic men? It seems that white men get many unwarranted negative labels attached to us when it comes to being good in bed etc.
I didn't say all white guys, I said 'largely.'Chris30 said:That seems like a pretty broad statement to generalize all white guys as ***** because I don't see myself that way. Care to elaborate?
I'm white (check my profile pic).joey2times said:Just another stereotype by some insecure black dude.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
can you tell me where this is happening so i can go there?
Apparently, jungle fever is pretty severe in Chicago and the Midwest.Chris30 said:I live just outside of Chicago, Illinois. The majority of attractive women here seem to prefer olive-complected or darker Italian, Hispanic or black guys.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yup, bingo! Seriously, most apologetic, guilt-tripped, feminist manginas are "educated" (programmed) Anglo & Asian men. And as we all know, no good deed goes unpunished with women... I mean, is it any surprise that this is taking place in an Anglo country...and not a Black, Latino or Mediterranean one?Don Juanabbe said:There are still plenty of white men who are not effeminate, but unfortunately, too many white men have been educated in left wing schools and universities. Asians have been equally pussified because after white men, they are the most likely to go onto post-secondary education where the true indoctrination takes place.
Sadly, many other ethnicities are deprived of higher education. Unfortunately, this is a fact. However, it may not be such a bad thing because I have noticed that Black men can think for themselves and are not ashamed of their masculinity.
White boys are increasingly being subjected to and indoctrinated into the feminist/homosexual mindset, that is why I guarantee the majority of the posters on this board are fed up white guys looking for answers.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Good on you my brother.wayword said:Yup, bingo! Seriously, most apologetic, guilt-tripped, feminist manginas are "educated" (programmed) Anglo & Asian men. And as we all know, no good deed goes unpunished with women... I mean, is it any surprise that this is taking place in an Anglo countryl...and not a Black, Latino or Mediterranean one?
Of course, your average Anglo guy pats himself on his "progressive" (regressive?) back everytime he hoists puzzy up on a pedestal...while lecturing other men on how they should do the same. Meanwhile, other men look at the disastrous folly he's created for himself and can only pray for that attitude not to infect their own cultures...
I can just see millions of American men beaming with pride when they elect Hillary as our next Pres...a power-hungry feminist who still repeats the same bogus mantras like how "women only make $.77 for every dollar a man does" here, etc etc.![]()
Correct. I have an Italian buddy who chases women to the point of masochism. He just doesn't take no for an answer.Chris30 said:I'm a white guy and I don't put pvssy on a pedestal though I'll agree that there are probably more chumpish, nerdy-looking white guys than men of other nationalities. But there are plenty of men of other nationalities that I've also seen worship average-looking women and treat them like queens which of course usually leads to them walking around like they are God's gift. If you browse the ads on craigslist, you'll see how even many fat women advertise like they are all that and deserve Prince Charming.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.