Why are men shamed for using escorts/hookers? Isnt that the ultimate dread if a guy has used them?

[Fruitbat]

Hookers can't fulfill you manly desire for accomplishing, conquering, overcoming obstacles. What's the honor or pride for ****ing a escort? It's the same as comparing someone who was born in a rich family, and another guy that was a homeless ass and became a millionaire. The value of the man comes from his accomplishments - which means how many walls he can breaks, how many goals he reached, how much he did for himself.

***** has no value. It's totally up to how much you want it and how far you're willing to go to get it. Not every man has the preparation and the will to keep on the hard path to get the best (and that's what most people get wrong, it's not about doing more for her to like you, but about doing more for YOURSELF so you'll become even more magnetic and people will naturally come to you).

Success always depend on previous preparation. If men become manly enough to focus on their way and give their gift to their world and their women, when they know how to act masculine to keep her in her feminine (because women adapt to their men, not the other way around), when they know their value and base their life on fulfilling his own goals, but not forgetting to be his woman's stronghold at the same time, always centered, someone she and and anyone else can trust.

This would be an ideal world, but sadly what we see is men acting most time weak (not only because of them, but because they've been taught to act this way), women stepping over them, using sex as a currency to get what she wants, as a reward for his "good boy" behaviour. The weak behaviour of men gives space for women to get a bitchy behaviour.

If you're a man of valor, she'll naturally want to be yours, and you'll naturally want to penetrate her (if you feel the same for her). Sex is not a currency.

Sadly generally the world doesn’t care if you made it through work or through family.

My parents, although I love them dearly, we’re addicts and alcoholics and discouraged me from education. It was a dysfunctional home.

I worked my @ss off for years and have done pretty well.

Men and women from a “born rich” class still look down on me. Little tell tale signs I wasn’t one of them. No degree. Different sports.

The world, if anything, values born wealth over made wealth. Especially women. Look at they way the fawn over Justin Trudeau when he’s achieved nothing other than be born to a famous father and ridden his coat tails.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I’m not. I go to an Asian massage parlors with happy endings and have paid for blow jobs a couple times. I wouldn’t penetrate a sex worker ..

I have no shame about it. It cost me the same as a date, yet saved me huge amounts of time.

You are literally the one of the loudest faux alphas on this board and you just admitted you pay for play….Golden

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You mean like wives and girlfriends? Hahaha. How about when they come home and kiss you after having one in their mouth?
I don’t indulge in any of this stuff but I can see why men would.

Yes...clearly every women fvcks 10 dudes a day. The thinly veiled women haters on this forum are hilarious.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Yes...clearly every women fvcks 10 dudes a day. The thinly veiled women haters on this forum are hilarious.

subtle things that tell me that you don’t have a life and full of shvt lol. I rarely have time to fvck one girl a day let alone 10 consistently.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Thats because legalizing it would throw a dagger into feminism and take down the family court prison + it is a kin to gaining control over birth decisions.
Not going to happen anytime soon

anything to back this up or is this pure mgtow rage

 

[rjc149]

Western society humiliates people for being unattractive.

Men who cannot seduce women on their own merits are viewed as unattractive. Unattractive men who pay for sex are viewed as sleazy and sad.

Overweight women, aesthetically limited women, women over 30, women with children, are all perceived as unattractive and pathetic on this forum, and are ridiculed accordingly.

If you want to bang hookers, go for it. Most men I know have done it. But don’t try to draw the analogy that it’s no different from taking a woman out on a date. Just be real about it.

 

[tightsocks]

anything to back this up or is this pure mgtow rage

Legalized prostitution would probably help marriage. If the woman doesn't put out then you go visit the brothel.

 

[tightsocks]

Legalized prostitution would probably help marriage. If the woman doesn't put out then you go visit the brothel.

It also boosts competition anxiety now that I think of it.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Legalized prostitution would probably help marriage. If the woman doesn't put out then you go visit the brothel.

So cheating on marriage is helpful? How the fvck can you seriously say this? WTF is wrong with you?

 

[eli77]

I think nowadays with the internet guys are more comfortable with playing sugar daddy to girls and meeting online or at malls vs massage palors and stripclubs.

 

[tightsocks]

So cheating on marriage is helpful? How the fvck can you seriously say this? WTF is wrong with you?

Legalized prostitution would put pressure on women to keep men sexually satisfied in marriage. In fact, marriage / LTRs in general would have way more meaning because the man wouldn't only enter into it for steady sex.

 

[SW15]

When I was hot and young enough to get hot young girls with no commitment I did it.

Nowadays its either work as mule to get and work even more to keep a cute young one, or take a woman my age (mid 30s) as a fvck buddy.

I mean its not that if you dont hit on escorts you will be scoring playmates.

Also any time I have to deal with a woman my age, my gut behaves like Im dealing with a used car salesman hiding incoming problems.

18-29 are crucial years. A man can use those years to lock down a high quality woman in her absolute prime or get young women with no committment. 30+, the options are working harder to get a younger woman or accepting either a fucck buddy or short to medium term relationship with a similarly aged woman. Many times, the women are mediocre looking too.

Dealing with 30+ women is like buying a higher mileage pre-owned car.

 

[tightsocks]

18-29 are crucial years. A man can use those years to lock down a high quality woman in her absolute prime or get young women with no committment. 30+, the options are working harder to get a younger woman or accepting either a fucck buddy or short to medium term relationship with a similarly aged woman. Many times, the women are mediocre looking too.

Dealing with 30+ women is like buying a higher mileage pre-owned car.

I have a hard time believing this considering men peak later in life around the 30s / 40s / maybe even later if you become extremely successful in a career (C-level executive, etc).

 

[Who Dares Win]

18-29 are crucial years. A man can use those years to lock down a high quality woman in her absolute prime or get young women with no committment. 30+, the options are working harder to get a younger woman or accepting either a fucck buddy or short to medium term relationship with a similarly aged woman. Many times, the women are mediocre looking too.

Dealing with 30+ women is like buying a higher mileage pre-owned car.

Agree, I realized myself its too late for me to have a happy family.

Those things work when the guy is below 30 and she is below 25, thats when they are both "fresh and receptive", free from baggage and can bond while sharing life experiences together in sensitive years.

At my age (mid 30s) I dont have girlfriends, I have fvck buddies with whom I share bills...I dont even care if they fvck with other men as long as I get my fix and half of the rent.

I have a hard time believing this considering men peak later in life around the 30s / 40s / maybe even later if you become extremely successful in a career (C-level executive, etc).

Thats bullsh1t, most men peak in their late 20s to mid 30s, exceptions are very few either due to luck or severe conditions that didnt allow a man to make it earlier.

 

[tightsocks]

Thats bullsh1t, most men peak in their late 20s to mid 30s, exceptions are very few either due to luck or severe conditions that didnt allow a man to make it earlier.

I don't agree with this. How am I peaking in my late 20s to mid 30s when my career / income / stability trajectory continues increasing well into the 40s if not later depending on how successful you are. Plus combine the previous with staying fit and having a good head of hair you're basically at the top of the game.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Let's be real, a lot of men would of stood better to bang a booker over a marriage/divorce, most men are basically marrying one anyways lol

 

[corrector]

Let's be real, a lot of men would of stood better to bang a booker over a marriage/divorce, most men are basically marrying one anyways lol

You could do both.

 

[Robert28]

Didn’t like that truth huh? How did he taste?
I don’t see the difference even though I don’t pay for it. You have no idea how many freshly dik used mouths you have kissed. And you know it. Everyone has.
this was about the comment how prostitutes might have had men that night before someone buys her time. If you expand it to something else, that’s on you.

Women haters dont have the fun I do. I love women. I just know what they are. Why don’t you?

If you don’t follow the “women are pure as the driven snow and can do no wrong” mantra then you are a “woman hater”.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If you don’t follow the “women are pure as the driven snow and can do no wrong” mantra then you are a “woman hater”.

Nah, some do plenty wrong, some don't. Just like guys. Trying to place "all" people of any group into a one size fits all statement is simply ignorant.

 

[MatureDJ]

I'm not sure why any dude would want to stick his d!ck into someone who probably has fvcked 3 or 4 other guys before you that night. That is gross.

Well, a man would have to be a bit daft to do it raw with such a gal. This is the one physical thing that a canonical girlfriend has the advantage. I'm at the point where I don't care to wear a raincoat, so it's either oral or rub & tug for me if it's not the poon.