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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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Why are LOTS of girls ALWAYS angry?

lazikia

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Has anyone else noticed this? It seems like lots of girls are always angry, it's like they're always having the worst day in the world and they feel the need to unleash their anger on an AFC. It's weird because I could only name a few angry guys that I know, but at least 90% of the girls that I encounter are always angry. I thought guys were supposed to be the angry ones, not girls. Since when does every girl have to act like a mega super b1tch?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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Groovy

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That's certinally not the case around where i live in... Actually, most of the GUYS I know are major AFC's deep down, who can't even handle their emotions well. They're always anxious or seeking for approval, and sort of uncomfortable with themselves... The girls are usually more relaxed and energetic, and can socialize with people preety well.

Aren't women just naturally more social then guys? And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
 

Commandante

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lazikia said:
but at least 90% of the girls that I encounter are always angry.
Have you ever thought about that maybe you are the one who makes them angry? You should stop beating them / stelaing their handbags / etc, whatever you do...
 

Just a Shot Away

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Groovy said:
And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
Yes. Yes, they do...and it's a hell of an ugly thing. Ever see Fatal Attraction?
 

The Experience

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It's nature.

And I haven't seen many angry women so far.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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CuriousGirl

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Sometimes the way you perceive people is mislead by your own personality/insecurities/issues. One of my younger sisters is generally a short-tempered moody cow, whereas I'm the opposite, the other day she came moaning to me about how this girl was ignoring her. I pointed out I was sure she wasn't being ignored, the girl was just distracted by other things. Sure enough .......Oh haha, before I even finish this, I can hear my sister saying to mum how I'm our grandma's favourite. Jeez, what a load of bollocks! Major second child syndrome, perhaps. Anyway, sure enough, I was right about the girl. So my point is, OP, have you considered it's just how you are perceiving these women? That they aren't actually as angry or uptight as you think.
 
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