"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why are LOTS of girls ALWAYS angry?

lazikia

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Has anyone else noticed this? It seems like lots of girls are always angry, it's like they're always having the worst day in the world and they feel the need to unleash their anger on an AFC. It's weird because I could only name a few angry guys that I know, but at least 90% of the girls that I encounter are always angry. I thought guys were supposed to be the angry ones, not girls. Since when does every girl have to act like a mega super b1tch?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Groovy

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That's certinally not the case around where i live in... Actually, most of the GUYS I know are major AFC's deep down, who can't even handle their emotions well. They're always anxious or seeking for approval, and sort of uncomfortable with themselves... The girls are usually more relaxed and energetic, and can socialize with people preety well.

Aren't women just naturally more social then guys? And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
 

Commandante

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lazikia said:
but at least 90% of the girls that I encounter are always angry.
Have you ever thought about that maybe you are the one who makes them angry? You should stop beating them / stelaing their handbags / etc, whatever you do...
 

Just a Shot Away

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Groovy said:
And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
Yes. Yes, they do...and it's a hell of an ugly thing. Ever see Fatal Attraction?
 

The Experience

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It's nature.

And I haven't seen many angry women so far.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CuriousGirl

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Sometimes the way you perceive people is mislead by your own personality/insecurities/issues. One of my younger sisters is generally a short-tempered moody cow, whereas I'm the opposite, the other day she came moaning to me about how this girl was ignoring her. I pointed out I was sure she wasn't being ignored, the girl was just distracted by other things. Sure enough .......Oh haha, before I even finish this, I can hear my sister saying to mum how I'm our grandma's favourite. Jeez, what a load of bollocks! Major second child syndrome, perhaps. Anyway, sure enough, I was right about the girl. So my point is, OP, have you considered it's just how you are perceiving these women? That they aren't actually as angry or uptight as you think.
 
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