Has anyone else noticed this? It seems like lots of girls are always angry, it's like they're always having the worst day in the world and they feel the need to unleash their anger on an AFC. It's weird because I could only name a few angry guys that I know, but at least 90% of the girls that I encounter are always angry. I thought guys were supposed to be the angry ones, not girls. Since when does every girl have to act like a mega super b1tch?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why are LOTS of girls ALWAYS angry?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's certinally not the case around where i live in... Actually, most of the GUYS I know are major AFC's deep down, who can't even handle their emotions well. They're always anxious or seeking for approval, and sort of uncomfortable with themselves... The girls are usually more relaxed and energetic, and can socialize with people preety well.
Aren't women just naturally more social then guys? And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
Aren't women just naturally more social then guys? And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
Commandante
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Have you ever thought about that maybe you are the one who makes them angry? You should stop beating them / stelaing their handbags / etc, whatever you do...lazikia said:but at least 90% of the girls that I encounter are always angry.
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Yes. Yes, they do...and it's a hell of an ugly thing. Ever see Fatal Attraction?Groovy said:And I tought they kind of had it better, since they're SO GOOD at giving mixed signals and etc, manipulating the living hell out of AFC's, making them think they like him but they just don't give a heck. (Do girls even have onitis?)
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It's nature.
And I haven't seen many angry women so far.
And I haven't seen many angry women so far.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
CuriousGirl
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Sometimes the way you perceive people is mislead by your own personality/insecurities/issues. One of my younger sisters is generally a short-tempered moody cow, whereas I'm the opposite, the other day she came moaning to me about how this girl was ignoring her. I pointed out I was sure she wasn't being ignored, the girl was just distracted by other things. Sure enough .......Oh haha, before I even finish this, I can hear my sister saying to mum how I'm our grandma's favourite. Jeez, what a load of bollocks! Major second child syndrome, perhaps. Anyway, sure enough, I was right about the girl. So my point is, OP, have you considered it's just how you are perceiving these women? That they aren't actually as angry or uptight as you think.